I found myself in bit ofa pickle the other morning!
I woke up wiv my best friends ex girlfriend - not saying i didnt know exactly wot i was doing coz i did n it was great!
When she n my friend were dating they had neva slept together and where only seeing each other for 3/4 months. He now has a new girlfriend but has been real suspicious of me n his ex as we were seen gettin in a cab together
Whats my options?? What would you do if faced wiv this?? She keeps txtn me and askin for more but i dnt know wot to do?? Tel my friend?? Hide it from my mate but carry on seeing her?? HELP ME!!
2007-03-13 02:35:19 · 27 answers · asked by Grantius Maximus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For all out there without a brain n tellin me to grow up - isnt asking for help the most grown up thing i can do in this situation?? Dont want piss people off anymore than i already have eh?!
The only reason i havnt said anything to him so far is because all im afta is the mind blowing sex!! Apparantly thats all she wants2 - anymore suggestions ??
2007-03-13 02:52:52 · update #1
F**k it - gona tell him n see what happens. Thanx 2all for your help
2007-03-13 03:22:44 · update #2
F**k it - gona tell him n see what happens. Thanx 2all for your help
2007-03-13 03:22:54 · update #3
i think you should just be honest with your friend
tell him what happened, and ask him if it would bother him if you kept on seeing her
good luck
xxx
hope you get to keep your friend and the mind blowing s-ex ;-)
2007-03-13 03:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky one. The rule is, your mates come first because when all is said and done, he will be there no matter what, even if you and his ex do not last. You need to speak to him. he may be over her, but this could be seen as betrayal on your part. He would probably respect you more if you were honest with him and showed him you are serious about her but do not want to hurt his feelings. Losing him over her would not be wise! Simply tell him the truth, on your own and explain how you feel. Depending on his reaction, because, well, he cannot stop you from seeing her, you should respect his feelings. It is entirely up to you, how much do you value his friendship? I know this could be something with her but if it is just a fling then you really need to consider his reaction.
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2016-12-19 04:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face it and be adults about it here No:1 you dont do your mates exs end off if you were a real mate you would have stayed well clear of her.
No 2: Haven't you stopped to think why shes interested in you are you sure she's not trying to make him jealous cos we all know thats what nasty girls do when they can't have the guy they want and obviuosly she will be jealous that he is seeing someone else.
I would waste my friendship for her she aint worth, ladys dont sleep with there exs mates end off.
2007-03-13 03:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by suzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Carry on the way it is for now, its more exiting this way. And u dont know what the girl wants, she may just be doing u to get back at your mate. U need to find out what she wants, there is no point telling your mate if its all gonna be over next week
2007-03-13 02:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't going out with your friend anymore so I don't see the problem - tell your mate whats going on, i'm sure if he's seeing someone new then he really won't be that bothered about what you and his ex are getting up to.
2007-03-13 03:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you and the girl should figure out where its going for you. If its going to be real and good and you really want to work at it then hide it for awhile until you are really cool with each other (in a good relationship) and then tell him. If its just to bang each others brains out then I wouldnt tell him.
Good Luck!
2007-03-13 02:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by buff1ne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah yes sounds like a pickle! Perhaps you should be honest with him, how do you think he will react? You're bound to bump into him when your out with his x, that stuff always happens. The truth has a way of coming out. I'm sure he'd think worse of you if you hid it from him. Good luck x
2007-03-13 02:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend was with someone for a few weeks and nothing happened between them. My other friend started to see him and now they have been together for a few years. Your freind should not be bothered because he is with someone else, if he wasn't then i could understand him being upset. Just tell your friend that she has been txtin you and ask him if it alright if you meet her and see what his reaction is. If he is ok with it then enjoy yourself. Good luck.
2007-03-13 03:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as your friend has a new girlfriend and him and this girl werent really that serious anyway then what is the problem?
If you and her are only going to be f*ck buddies then you dont really need to tell him do you?
2007-03-13 02:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋