i am a virgin and how does it feel to give it up for the first time.?

Question

many say it hurts the first time.some say that your cherry pops.
you may not want to do it again,well i need some reall ladies to hook me up.

Answer 1

im a guy but some girls tell me that is hurts a little for their first time but if you go slow there should be no problem

for the most part your first time could either be your best time or your worst time it just depends on you and the other person

Answer 2

No, you don't need ladies to tell you.......what you need is a guy who is gentle so although it might hurt a bit he will at least make you feel is all about having a good time. No your cherry does not pop.......but there is a thin layer that has to be penetrated and that makes you hurt a bit. Also, guys are soo desperate to get into your panties and be rough that you may not like the experience but eventually you will!!

Tell the guy not to be rough while inside and to be gentle while going in!!! If the guy starts making coments or laughing don't give it up to him......wait until you find someone more understanding.......you will enjoy it more then!!

Good luck!!

Answer 3

First of all I want to say to you that your body is yours and that you do not have to do it because every says that they are....chances are they are not "doing it". As I said it is your body....respect it, respect yourself. If you respect yourself and dress as though you respect yourself and your body, then ppl will respect you. You also need to be aware that their are diseases that you cannot wash away. There is absoutly noting wrong with waiting until marriage. This is actually something that a great deal of guys want from their potential wives anyway. Once you have made you decision then you have to live with the consequiences, of being labeled, and easy along with all the other horrific names that you will be called....are you ready for your name to put on the bathroom wall as call ??? for a good time. This is be just one of the consequiences of your actions. You can ask any guy and he will tell you that when he is looking for a suitable young lady to take home and meet his parents, he wants a young lady who is respectful, and dress as such. They do not want to take home some trasy thing wearing short skirts, short shorts, and the extremely low rise jeans or shorts that come just above the pubic area. Dressing this way tells them that you all the bad things I have listed above. Girls who dress in this manner...well lets just say...their reputation preceedes them, and guys already know what they can get form them.

Now to answer your question...for some the first time is painful and for some it is not...the popping of the cherry, is blood from the first time....who will know if you are sexually active.....no one but you and the rest of the school and your gynecologist, who can tell by examining you. If you choose to proceed with having sex, see your GYN first so that you can get BC pills...to prevent pregnancy at such a young age...in other words be responsible. BC pill will not protect you form diseases.....and don't think for one moment that the guy will tell you if he has anything or that he has been with someone who has something.....it is up to you and you alone to protect you own body and health.

I do hope this information will help you in making your decision for now and in the future.

Answer 4

depending on your age if you under17 you shouldn't have sex! but on the other hand these teens don't listen anyways!
always always wear a condom! You never know if you will be the victim of HIV of AIDS! but yeah it can hurt to have sex for the first time. but once you keep on doing it it fells good after a while. having sex for the first time is a precious thing in life you want to make sure you do someone you really love and the guys that is worth it if it just one of those botty calls don't do it your life is a temple remember that!

Answer 5

Well it all depends. My first time it took four times to get it in. Which was spread out over four days. Then i bled for two weeks. But I have been having sex for 8 months, and I go to the doctor yearly now, and i am having no problems. You should take it easily if you are concerned.

Answer 6

Baby i want you to think about it! Ive heard that same stuff but once its gone you can never get it back! it gonna be like a drug then next thing you know WHOA ur having a baby! this is a question you should ask yourself! THE MAIN THING IS everyone is made different so you have to experience for yourself so think about it if ur young just please wait till your 18 r married! I betcha there alot of ladies out there who say they wished they would've waited!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

My first time hurt real bad! I bled profusely, and it bled for about 3-4 days like a period. It really hurt though and this was 19 years ago, I still remember the pain.......

Answer 8

Most girls lose their hymen way before they ever have sex...due to physical activity (i.e. sports) or other natural factors.

It can hurt the first time if the guy is too eager and doesn't pay attention to your feelings. You have to start slow. Don't expect your first few times to be fantastic!

Answer 9

Well as a guy i know from experyance that if the guy makes you have an orgasm it wount hurt the girl at all and then you may want to do it agine.but you have to do that first or youll regret it later.

Answer 10

Well,I am no lady,but,sex isnt everything,I would hold off a while.Theres so much more out there to experience,sex should be the last thing on your mind at this time.