i've hit rock bottom, I know we are just friends but still I'm really depressed.?

Question

I really like this girl, and I've known her for a year, and we have hung out a couple of times this past month and there was like a week of her calling me which was really cool bcuz I had always called her, but then she just stopped calling me for some reason. she knows I like her, i've been extremely nice to her, I've shown her I like her, I sent flowers to her school on valentines day, and I asked her if she liked me more than a friend she said "I don't know, its hard, I like u as a friend though", I can't stop thinking about her no matter how hard I try. I have trouble sleeping, I feel as though I have no energy throughout the day, My life has had a lot of down moments, I just don't feel hopeful that I will find someone like her again. I know I just need to move on, but its reallly hard. I've been praying that it will get better, and I know it will eventually but its reallly hard right now. what can someone like me do to get over this?

thanks

Answer 1

get back out there enjoy yourself, move on find someone new

Answer 2

Hi, well you sure were sweet to her and if she doesn't want anything more than a friendship with you well hey you tried right.

Your a nice guy and someone will come along that will just think you are the bomb! I mean it's obvious that you treat someone that you really care about like a queen and that's cool, but don't get all down on yourself because she brushed you off I'm sure you will find someone else and she doesn't have to be like her, hey maybe the next girl that you meet will be better and she will appreciate such a wonderful guy like yourself.

Just put a smile on and don't be depressed do something for yourself today that makes you feel great!

Take care and good luck.

Answer 3

Ok, that's part of it...you found out that she doesnt have feelings for you, that's fine it happens.
If she had feelings, she would have let you know then...but she just wants to be friends...this happens to everyone at one time or another.
the best thing you can do is be a gentleman when you see her...and act like it doesnt bother you a bit....
as far as your feelings go, you will get over it eventually and time heals all wounds, believe me!
Try not to be depressed, because there are millions of chicks in the world and you will find another.
As far as the depression goes, lose yourself in physical exercise and don't stay up late...go to bed at a sensible hour.
don't hold negative feelings toward this girl. she isn't wrong for not having the same feelings.
Eventually you will be ok again, I promise!

Answer 4

evaluate donating the cord blood. possibly you are able to keep a existence. that's no longer your fault. once you think of roughly all of the failings which could pass incorrect, that's surprising that any persons stay to tell the story to alter into adults. One cellular will become billions. All it take it one to pass the incorrect course for each thing to pass incorrect. i understand this may appear undesirable, yet while your baby did stay to tell the story looking after a particular desires baby is annoying and expensive. If God tells you it wasn't meant to be, count kind your advantages.

Answer 5

I know it's hard and all I can say is gives it time. I know that's not much of advice but time heals all wounds. Do things to get your mind off of her like play a sport, video game, hang with friends and if all else fail "study" you will be so stressed with studying you wont have time to think about anything else.

Answer 6

Good answers here.Don't do what i've been doing lately.....Drinking,and partying a lot,because when you "come out of it"it's still there stronger than ever.

Answer 7

i know how you feel...just try to stop thinking about her...look for someone else...or just find someone to talk to...or tell her how you really feel...

hope everything works outs...good luck

Answer 8

you need to talk to her tell her it was not right for her to do that to you. just wait it will get better