I see my bf once a week because we're both so busy. I'm going out of town this week so lastnight was my only time to see him. He gets a call from a female friend of his who calls all the time. This time when she called, she kept talking for like 20 minutes while I was watching tv. At about the 25 minutes mark - I got upset and asked my bf if he wanted me to leave. She was talking about her breakup and he said she needed his advice and help. I'm thinking that if I called a guy who's girlfriend was over - I'd keep my conversation brief. This is the 2nd time he's done this but this is the 1st time I've complained. We argued about it and I ended up leaving. I'm SO mad.
2007-03-13 02:00:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what is the question?
you should have been wasted during the conversations. not being wasted is bad phone ettiquette. shame on you.
2007-03-15 17:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave that guy. He is an extremely rude prick.How can you be on the phone with another girl when your lady is sitting on the couch waiting for you??? Is your boyfriend mentally deficient or something, because he sounds like a complete idiotic moron (excuse my french). Find yourself another guy ASAP
2007-03-13 09:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie's Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset, your boyfriend showed extreme poor taste, and bad manners toward you. He is disrespecting you and he could easily make that a short phone call.
Spending 25 minutes with his ex on the phone, instead of paying attention to you shows where his priority is.
Dump him.
2007-03-13 09:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no specific times a person can be there for their friends honey. If you are a persons true friend you're there for them whenever they need you. And it's not like she can schedule her problems to arise only when you're not around. I think you're being totally selfish. You owe him an apology! And actually, you could learn from him. Sorry if the truth hurts!
2007-03-13 09:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by kathy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad to. I would have complained the first time. If he has to spend time baby sitting other ladies through their relationships, rather than give me his time! I'd get me a new boyfriend!
2007-03-13 09:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rude not just of her but of him as well. I think I might start to question their relationship and feelings for eachother. Don't ask him to choose though unless you are willing to end the relationship over the whole thing.
2007-03-13 09:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really rude of him
he should call her back when you're not there or something
but its completely unpolite
tell him you're not gonna hang around if he keeps talking to gals while with you
you have to teach him, its the only way he'll learn
good luck
2007-03-13 09:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Nick723 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋