see ive already gone out with him twice and it hasnt worked out yet! now he wants me to go back to him again! but im not sure i want to. see my birthdays next thursday and he planning on throwing me a suprise birthday party and asking me out there. i know thats so sweet! part of me wants to go out with me but then again i just want to be friends. what should i do? any advice would be helpful. thank you in advance for the advice
2007-03-13 01:55:22 · 8 answers · asked by jumpy j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...just be honest with the guy darling...what else is there gonna be with him otherwise? Don't string anyone along like a puppy dog darling...it wouldn't be a "NICE THING" to do to him. You wouldn't want someone doing this kinda stuff to you now...would ya? Be fare, be honest, and be considerate of his heart hun. He likes ya babe. Don't create confusion in him otherwise. That kinda stuff would simply just simply hurt everyone...wouldn't you agree? Men have feelings too sweetie. Try to respect that kinda stuff anyways. You'll only get as good as you give otherwise. Good luck!
2007-03-13 02:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell him you want to keep it at a friendship. Don't let anyone ever make you feel guilty.... Don't be pushed into a relationship you don't want to be in. It is nice that he is giving you a party for your birthday, but don't let yourself be manipulated by things like this. He may be a great person, I don't know, because I don;t know him... Just take it slow, one day at a time. Like I said, be honest... Don't let yourself be pressured and stressed over this situation.
2007-03-13 09:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Godlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your feelings
if going out with him twice hasn't worked out so well why is it that he's throwing you a party? did he think that everything between you is cool? do you give him the message that you really like him? or is he just not paying attention?
if you like him just a little bit, and even if you don't like him at all you should be honest with him, he deserves that at least, right? tell him you're unsure, tell him he's really sweet, but you're not ready to get serious. you're young, don't rush things.
2007-03-13 09:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Squeak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are really sorry but seing as the last two times didnt work out, you dont want to be hurt again, and your sorry if her was planning anything for you to get you to be with him, but you just can risk your heart again.
2007-03-13 08:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shud go bk out with him, guys grow up slower than girls, he has probably just relised that he does really like you and has finally matured enough to understand.
take the chance, you could end up marrying this guy, if you have been out with him twice before then its obviouse that you like him and that he likes you, i have the same problems sum times, go for it, take time to get to know him and then slowly after the relationship has gon on for a while, let him into your heart and you will see his full potential gud luk, lv chavin_it_riz x x x
2007-03-13 09:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by love_me_im_sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with the guy take some advice from a girl who has been in a similar situation it never works taking an ex back I lost count at the times me and my ex got back together and i'm not with him now we just couldn't make it work
2007-03-13 09:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go just to have fun. Who knows, maybe you'll have fun with some friends you enjoy being with. But it is your birthday so do what's good for you!
Megan
2007-03-13 08:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by meganzopf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be forward with him, if you aren't straight forward it can cause unnecessary problems.
2007-03-13 08:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by jennie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋