I had a hard time teaching my boy. He is always throwing everything he can get hold of. He is really stubbon i used to spank his hand if he throw anything but it does not work. He won't cry, he won't stop throwing, and worst he beat me back. Untill few days ago i didn't spank his hand when he start throwing the tv controller. Instead i scolded him and walk away into my room. Then he start crying and come to me showing he was sorry and stop the throwing. So i use the same method now when he did something wrong. So far it works but I'm worry that very fast he will not care. What other method do you have beside spanking?
2007-03-13 01:29:39 · 6 answers · asked by rainbobowrain 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
For my two year old... - he been teach young not to teach certain things.. by hinding his hands hard... and till now days he has nos touch them...
beside spacking them as 18mths understand most word... tell him that is a wrong thing you did and sent him to his own room or a naughty corner...then say 5minutes if he behave let him come out.. and hopfully he will learn... sometimes I think smacking is wrong...but sometimes it help them realise what they are doing is wrong
2007-03-13 02:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the age when parents lose control with their children. They believe that they are still babies and cannot be corrected. I hear all the time that they are to young and don't know what they did.
Age appropriate discipline is important. Do not give in to temper tantrums and never let your child hit you and get away with it. Do not get into a screaming match with your toddler and do not let them know they have gotten the best of you. Remember that he is a toddler and you are an adult.
First off set limits. Make the TV controller off limits. When he picks it up take the control and put it up on top of the television. Tell him that it isn't a toy, he can break it. Redirect him to another toy. If he throws his toys then firmly tell him, "No! We Don't Throw Toys. Play with the toys nicely." If he is being stubborn and throws the toy again right away then put him in the corner or on a rug for 1 minute. He'll fuss and cry but he'll sit there. When he is done his minute tell him again, "We don't throw toys, we play nicely."
Be consistent. It will work. SD
2007-03-13 03:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by SD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hitting you back because youre teaching him by doing that to him. Also try telling him no, and taking away the stuff he throws.
2007-03-13 02:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by lillilou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my 2 year old daughter has a very bad temper and unfortunatly is too young to understand how to control it so whenever she has these outbursts i place her in her room until she calms down and then i tell her she can come out now that she has calmed down
unfortunatly what works for one child may not work for another try taking something of his that he loves away until he calms down this works for my sister
2007-03-13 01:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dan X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take away a "privilege" - throwing remote, then no TV for a day. find out what are his favorites and leverage on those.
2007-03-13 01:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell you scaolded him what with dont do it
2007-03-13 01:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋