I love my bf to death but everything he does makes me want to punch him in the face. Am I a freak or is this normal?
2007-03-13 01:23:07 · 7 answers · asked by crazycoolfootballchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want my honest answer maybe you need to find a different mate. Right now he is your boyfriend and if and when he asks you to marry him and you still have this feeling of wanting to punch him, will you be happy in the long run. Yes I am single and have been out of the game for a while but being happy with yourself and your mate is the key to any relationship hands down.
My question to you is have you talked to him about it and have you tried to work through theses feelings of anger toward him. Many be if you point out the things that piss you off, he may make an effort to not do theses thing, but remember its a two way street he may feel the same about things you do.
Good Luck
2007-03-13 08:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by jcmc3056 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...I just went through this kinda exacting stuff recently myself...so I can sorta relate to your issue. Understand you have no control over anyone but yourself. This includes your own imagination and your own thinking. Understand that the perfect person doesn't exist darling. Your man is not perfect,...and neither are you. Stuff happens hun. Try to find the good positive features of this guy though. I'm certain he has at least a few good things you like about him anyways. Why would you even be bothering with him otherwise? Find the positive crazy good stuff with this guy sweetie. The bad crazy stuff that occurs occasionally are just simple moments hun...and these circumstances will soon pass you both by too. They're only brief moments babe. Try to enjoy yourselves while you're both enjoying the good moments together. That's the way it's supposed to be truly. Satisfaction is much cooler then dissatisfaction. Try to sustain the good...more so then the bad. They're only moments in time. Think positively babe...I know ya can do it too. Good luck!
2007-03-13 01:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I somehow feel this must be a phase that all relationships must go through. You aren't a freak there are more of us like that than you could ever know. He may be a freak however. In some way he may like the conflict because he is twisted and just likes the makeup sex.
2007-03-13 01:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you exaggerate it that much, I'd say yeah, to a degree you have a problem. Nobody is that IMPERFECT. But loving someone who drives you crazy? Sure, that aspect seems perfectly normal. If you don't care about him, he wouldn't really drive you crazy, would he?
2007-03-13 01:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. You can love, but not like, someone. The answer is, I am afraid, to dump him.
2007-03-13 01:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you so crazy, why not give him a "bust' in the mouth??
2007-03-13 01:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by mnencefront 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-13 01:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ahmad E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋