i used to be with this girl almost a year ago for 9 months, she used to be the love of my life and we fell in love preety seriously, but the trust was gone because of too many partying and we broke up, she got someone else and most likely forgot, but she has still been in my mind. and even if i want to forget, i cant. is there any way of forgetting because i am sick of thinking about her to this day -thanks
2007-03-13 01:17:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
time heals all wounds
2007-03-13 01:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jerrica Starlight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does not heal all wounds. Most likely, you did not have closure. Try writing a letter to her and say everything you want to say..BUT DON"T MAIL THE LETTER! Instead, read it when you're done writing and set that baby on fire someplace safe! Tell yourself that when that letter is gone from the fire, you will close that chapter in your life and take what you learned from her and move on. I don't recommend moving on to someone else quite yet. I recommend you start looking at your life and where you want to go, what you want to improve and concentrate on making yourself happy. When you are happy and healthy, you will attract healthy and happy people. I know this is so difficult to forget someone who means so much! You don't have to forget her, just let her and her memory go! Throw the situation to the universe and see what happens. Most of all, don't expect it to happen over night! Good luck my friend!!
2007-03-13 09:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Siren_Cin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you have way too much time on your hands to be thinking about this girl so much. You need to get yourself a hobby to take your mind of her. If you start doing new things then you wont have time to think about what you have lost. There is no magic cure where you can do something and it's like she never existed. But the more time that passes and the less time you sit thinking about it the easier it will become. Before you know it you will be going weeks without thinking about her.
2007-03-13 08:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by jessicarabbit21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fell in love seriously or pretty seriously? LOL I cannot understand... You'll forget about her in time not to worry!!! Just go out and meet other girls.. Romanian are hot!! LOL
2007-03-13 08:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one because you want to hate her but you still care somewhere inside your mind..
the easiest answer would be to occupy your spare time so you think about other things..
Volunteer for something, do vigorous excercise, meet other people.
2007-03-13 08:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by essence_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Get your life back in order. Time heals all wounds. Trust me
2007-03-13 08:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time, give it time. i was with my ex for 8 years. i cant stop thinking about him but in time it will come. it is hard, this i know. take care of your self. you need it!
2007-03-13 08:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do other things, to get her off your mind, or find another girl.
2007-03-13 08:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by loverforever150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
replace her it looks like she forgot you after she replaced you:)
2007-03-13 08:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋