I recently split up with my x boyfriend, but its a year since the day we met tommorrow and we both wanna meet for old times sake, this will probably lead to the bedroom if i do meet him. But i got a date with another guy the next night who i have just started seeing (nothing serious started that to take my mind off splitting up with my x) I am definately meeting the new guy on thursday but im not sure if i should meet the x on wed on not cos really do want to see him as its 1 yr since we met, but he did hurt me (not by cheating) and i dont know if i should give him the satisfaction!? is slaaping with 2 guys in 2days wrong? if they found out they would both think im a tart or something! what should i do? go with both of them? or not meet my x, which i do wanna do
2007-03-13 01:13:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can date how many you want...None your in a relationship with, so its fine...
2007-03-13 01:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I wouldnt give the ex the satisfaction if i was you!!But saying that if you really want to see him then go for it!!There is nothing wrong in seeing or sleeping with 2 men in 2 days if thats what you want to do!You havent got any commitment with either 1 of them so you wont be doing any thing wrong!But i would suggest you dont tell the new guy that you met your ex the night before as this might give him the wrong impression -- but theres nothing wrong in keeping your options open so i say go for it and meet both x
2007-03-13 01:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by jo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't even lower yourself to meet your ex. If it become serious with this other guy then you will regret cheating on him at the start. My boyfreind met at girl at the start of us and it is something that i will never forget and get over. It just puts strain on your relationship. You obviously have feelings for your ex and you are using the excuse of it being a year to meet him and teeling yourself that it is ok. Ask your ex to meet you a wwek on wed and make an excuse why. Meet this other lad on thurs and if you are not sure then meet your ex and have some fun.
2007-03-13 02:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with meeting 2 guys one on each day but why do you feel you got to sleep with them. Yes you could get a name. Why dont you just meet have a drink and leave it at that. Then you will know if they like you more than just for a quick romp.
2007-03-13 01:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are being presumptious in assuming your ex will want to sleep with you. If it is over and you have moved on what is the point of seeing him again - it only prolongs the agony and rakes up all the old feelings. What is his motive for seeing you again? If there is no chance of you two getting back together again then I would just go out with the new guy. It is hardly fair to him either if you are seeing your ex. Maybe I am old fashioned but I think it would be totally wrong to sleep with both of them, where is your self respect? Neither of them would have any respect for you either if they found out.
2007-03-13 02:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You "think" they would think you are a tart? You sound like the kind of girl that just does what she wants to do and somehow equates getting a guy to bang you means you are a hotty. Why don' t you just meet both of them but just keep your panties on the whole 48 hours. Nothing wrong with that.
2007-03-13 01:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally I wouldn't be sleeping with my x, if he hurt me. Why open up old feelings for him? He's not worth it. As for the new guy I would wait a while before jumping into bed with him too. I wouldn't feel good about sleeping with 2 different guys in two days but thats just me. You might be different. x
2007-03-13 01:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
control yourself would be a good start, as you've only just met this new guy, why would you want to jump straight into bed with him, as for your ex, well why give in so easily to him, if fact after he hurt you, why would you bother at all. I must admit the way you phrased your question does make you sound like a tart, whether or not you are, only you know.
2007-03-13 01:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
it's up to you what you do...but if it was me i would not meet my x/boyfriend...i would tell him some think has come up...
meeting him will only mess your head up and he probably knows this that is why he wants to meet you...be strong you will only get hurt by him again....and as for the other guy let him know this is not a serous relationship and just fun because he knows were he stands...
2007-03-13 01:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by missnicedell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is an ex for a reason! why meet up? for old times sake or not, i'd jus wait another night........your still gona get some!
it depends on u entirely! and if they did find out......how does that make you look?? not really that good.
also think about being careful, 2 guys in 2 days, do you know where they've been?
2007-03-13 01:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Bird 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really dont think u should meet ur ex at all....been there done that eh? Some things are best left alone...but hey thats my opinion.
It might mess with ur head and you dont really need that do u?
Plus I dont think its right on the other guy?!!
2007-03-13 01:19:36 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋