Hello again, well I have my date tonite with the younger man..I've decided to drive, we are going for a few drinks, then see what happens....
We have been sending naughty txts all week, so should I go to quite/busy pub? also after I was thinking a little drive and see what happens ...as guys what would you want/expect? I'm thinking carry on the flirting, have a little fun and leave him wanting another date..what you think??
2007-03-13 00:05:14 · 21 answers · asked by money bank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not drinking as I'm driving..I'm not stupid....I just meant we are going for a drink!!
2007-03-13 00:15:50 · update #1
I'm 25 and he is 19, I'm not looking for a major relationship, just got out of one..just a bit of fun!!
2007-03-13 00:31:18 · update #2
go ahead.... bst of lck....
2007-03-13 00:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by aaryan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as you being the older woman he may just have one thing on his mind and thats sex, it depends on what your after, if your after a quick one in the back of the car then go for it, but if you feel you want more from him then let him wait and ask him if he really likes you, or if he sees you as some fun or potential relationship.
I can decide in a matter of an hour of being with that person if i want to see them again and if i don't i would be up for sex anyway.
2007-03-13 07:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by blitzed200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His expectations might be there will be sex. Re-check the "Naughty Txt" messages, is there an underlying context that would leave him to the conclusion that there will be a sexual encounter? He willl probably expect the night to end with sex. But if you "have a little fun" and don't lead him on to much in the long run he will definatly be looking for that next date.
2007-03-13 07:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Larry J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think with all the flirting he is going to expect sex!!
Maybe you should stick to soft drinks if you intend to drive about? Just a thought.
Anyway, dont stress it, get glammed up and go have fun!!
2007-03-13 07:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by rainbowarrior73 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if your plan is to go for a few drinks and then a drive, I'll be really pi55ed off if it's my car you drunkenly plough into and wreck.
On the subject of the date - he's going to want sex.
2007-03-13 07:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was me i would prefer a quiet country pub where we could chat and have a sneaky kiss.... hold hands .... then a quick snog in the car park.....
Going for a drive in the car afterwards to a quiet country lane suggests....( to me ) that you want sex.....so if you dont i would suggest that you drive him home afterwards and have a kiss outside his house.... that way he will prob want a second date...
2007-03-13 08:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting him your local not his. Carry on with the flirting. Gave him a little taster of you....such as a kiss, so that he'll want another date. If you have sex with him straightway, he's going to think your desperate or easy.
2007-03-13 07:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by trackie1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be careful - don't lead him on too much, have drinks (non-alcoholic for you), chat, little flirting, take him home, give him a kiss on the cheek and tell him how much you enjoyed his company.
Then leave it to him.
2007-03-13 07:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry on with the flirting but keep him wanting more
most important though, have fun and relax
xx
2007-03-13 07:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little flirting is ok.
Be cautious coming off as too sexy or wanting to give him some.
Some guys will practically think they have to have it because she offered etc.
2007-03-13 07:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it
2007-03-13 07:21:34 · answer #11 · answered by hellwot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋