Hi,
I met a girl at a club, I told her I think she is very pretty, and got her number. two days later we chatted over SMS for a short time.
I want to see her again, but I hate playing these mind games, so I want to be straight to the point.. So I want to know what girls think about this; I want to write an sms to her, saying that;
I think she is really nice, down to earth, and that I really want to know her better, and then ask her over this sms if we could maybe meet up sometime to get to know each other better, if she feels comfy with it.
I want be straight the the point, and not beat around the bush.
Please tell me what you think about being so forward, and I know I should call her, but I am more of a shy guy, so I want to keep in in the conxtext of this sms?
Is it too forward or will she appreciete it? What are your ideas and inputs?
2007-03-13 00:04:02 · 11 answers · asked by K S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be straight forward just like you were saying. There's nothing wrong with that. In fact, I would want someone that didn't beat around the bush and was just honest with me. If you really like her then give it a shot. If she turns you down then you know she was the one playing mind games and go for an honest girl. Good luck!
2007-03-13 00:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna be straight, but straight. But I also recommend being firm. Don't add gloss.
Gloss is things like "you're so pretty and cute and smart and I'd really really love to know you."
Straight is "You seem cool and I wanna get to know you to see if you're more than a pretty face."
Gloss is "could we meet again some time? Would that be okay with you? If you're comfy..."
Straight is "Let's meet. 7pm, the starbucks at the mall. See ya there."
Don't try to soften it up to "see if it's okay" with her. Assume it's okay. She'll let you know otherwise.
If you ask me, you're not being straight enough.
Have a fun date!
2007-03-13 08:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, straight to the point fails most of the time. People want excitement and mystery. If you are too straight forward and honest, the girl might think you are boring.
Play a little.....
2007-03-13 07:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by monique8p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her be brave cool and confident u wont regret it! i think its not the best tactic to be SO straight u if u do it do it right sms are for kids call her trust me it is way better! however i think its better to ask her out first and then face to face express ur feelings for her be a man pal good luck
2007-03-13 07:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to meet you out at a public place until she gets to know you. Women/men have to be very careful about dating strangers. Let her feel comfortable with you before asking her to be alone with you.
The rest of your idea sounds nice!
2007-03-13 07:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i think its better to text her, not to call. and yes - i think this kind of sms should be ok. don't put too many compliments on it, nor stuff like "i want to know you better, blahh bla". go straight to what you want - ask her to meet up. don't think too much, go ahead - text her NOW.
i bet she'll agree..:)
2007-03-13 07:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by irma J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sincere, be direct and be ready to be told "no" and be ready to move on. Life is far too short.
2007-03-13 07:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THE KEY IS TO BE SINCERE!!!!!!! =)
When you are sincere...the gal can sense it and she will give you a yes! If she is open to give you her number... well, i thikn she should be okay for a date.... give it a shot!
all the best!
2007-03-13 07:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Josephine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go straight forward tell her what you feel, i think you're shy to tell her what you feel cause you're afraid of reaction
2007-03-13 07:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by yurrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think thats fine
2007-03-13 07:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋