So I've been official with the guys for one month, we were dating for about 2 weeks before he asked me out.There's just a list of things I'm kind of weird about;
(1) He hasn't tried to get me into bed at all, but he does get very hard when we make out and fool around
(2) Our first date, he went with me and my gay friend to a gay bar & said he liked it there & offered to go back
(3) He told me that everyone in high school accused him of being gay
(4) He wears hot pink polos
(5) He said he cries during animal cruely commercials
(6) When he tells me some of these things, I'll laugh and he'll go, I swear I'm not gay in a joking way
(7) I stopped things from going to sex once & apologized & he said its ok, I am very attracted to you but I can wait for you
..other than that, he is the sweetest guy ever. We've never faught, he cooks me dinner, helps with my Uni homework, very smart and he can't keep his hands off me. We stay in a lot and watch movies and he's always kissing me & touching me..
2007-03-12 23:46:23 · 13 answers · asked by Fae von Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. We talk all the time, on msn in the morning when he's at work, on the phone after work and we've been seeing each other a lot 5-6 times a week. It's mainly just us two watching movies together and cuddling. He sleeps over and enjoys cuddling with me and holding me while we sleep.
2007-03-12 23:48:33 · update #1
p.s.s. I'm also a virgin, but once he had to stop dry humping because he said we were driving each other crazy...
2007-03-12 23:49:31 · update #2
(1) maybe hes just waiting not rushing u!! its only been a month! plus if he gets hard kissing u then u know he actually fancys u!
(2)nothing wrong with liking a gay bar, hes trying to impress u by saying he would try it again.
(3) this happens to my best friend, and hes had a girlfriend for 4 years. therefore not gay
(4) boys wear pink these days,, have u not noticed?
(5) he has a heart, more than i can say for most fellas.
(7) HES BEING A GENTLEMAN!!
stop thinking the poor boy is gay!!!
2007-03-12 23:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, from my experiance, I have many many gay friends, and then I've dated the manly guy and the sensitive guy... so I'm going to tell you that I really don't think so from what you've described. Most guys I know don't get turned on by chicks if their gay, but beyond that, you say he can't keep his hands off you...sounds like he's pretty attracted to you. You say he's very sweet, you seem to like him a lot, don't stress over it! Maybe you're lucky enough to have found one of the ones that's okay with expressing emotions that are often ridiculed in men, called feminine. He obviously trusts you enough to let you see that side of himself. That is important, trust and comfort are as significant as compatability and commonality in a relationship. Also, you said you're a virgin, is he also? If so, maybe he's nervous. If not, he could very well be nervous about the fact that you are. Many guys are. They don't want to hurt you, pressure you, etc. I think you should just enjoy your time together and see where it goes.
2007-03-13 07:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by genericusername#7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you two have a great relationship. Maybe he just has a few sensitive spots to him, and maybe he is just a genuine decent guy who won't push for sex. He sounds like he is really into you though so I wouldn't worry about it. If it really bothers you then you will have to talk to him about it I suppose. Has he ever had another girlfriend? That would be something worth knowing. Even if he turns out to be gay in the end, sounds like you could have a really awesome gay best friend!
2007-03-13 06:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by crackermelons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just on the sensitive side. I've dated a few guys like that. I would advise against the hot pink polos and gay bars, but other than that he seems pretty straight just mushy.
2007-03-13 06:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's gay. he might be a little femine but that doesnt mean he's gay. I think the reason he's waiting so good for you for sex is cuz well he respects you...I know odd hey.lol.
If your really concerned then point blank ask him. And figure it out from his reaction.
In the meen time enjoy him cooking for you and him being interested in spending time with you.
2007-03-13 06:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes girl, he is. Buuutttt, he might be a closet case. You may feel that he's really close and touchy, but most gay guys love attention and affection. He sounds like a sister.
2007-03-13 06:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by monique8p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a chance he is one of those rare guys that are patient and willing to wait until you are ready. sounds like a nice guy that really likes you.
2007-03-13 06:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My roommate says your boyfriend is gay, or very confused.
2007-03-13 06:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by Rev. Vlad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first off
gay-happy
gay bar-homosexual oriented place with a liquor license
hopefully he's gay
2007-03-14 23:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by ?????? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may-be he is just wont the time to be right and sure
2007-03-13 06:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋