Ladies there is a girl that I really liked for a while we dated and all of a sudden shesaid she didnt want to?
date anymore I never asked why because it hurt I spent alot of money in time on her because i wanted to make her happy but I tried to kiss her once and she declined but I was still persistent and gave my all.I never approached her sexually but I told her I liked her all the time now after 4 months of not speaking she shows up at my house unannounced..I really care for her but I just cant be hurt again why would she show up at my house and what does she want..I know if I call Im pulled right back into loving her I want to love her but I dont know if she loves me..What do I do I also lost my job and my money is sparse..do I travel down this path or what Please help..
2007-03-12 23:41:44 · 3 answers · asked by doughdzm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should be careful enough...she may only wish for your money, not for you... and you said that u have dated a lot...u should know her... or perhaps not
maybe she had a problem... and now it`s solved, but i don`t know
i`ll give her a chance, but in the same time,a test... try to do whatever with her without spending money, first of all
and secondly, speak to her... find out if she only wants to be your friend, or if she had a bad boyfriend before, or if it`s a religious thing, or...
try to find out why she is not involving sentimentally, after such a long time and try to do all these without getting involved right now. but in the mean time, act the same as before. If things will go OK, u may feel whatever for her but carefully: don`t do it until u are sure of her
2007-03-12 23:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by sclipym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this girl how you feel about her and that you love her very much and want to be with her all the time and that you want to marry her. You will be surprised by her answer, because maybe she found out that you are the one person for her.
2007-03-12 23:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships dont mean spend your money on her. tel her you cant currently, you need time to yourself, dont get sucked in, you have been hurt once before, she ignored you, its not nice and to go through it a second time possible, is earth shattering. dont do it to yoruself;
get your own life together, and dont ever go spending ridiculous money on any girl, its never worth it. a fair relationship is 50/50, not spending your money on her. she is not meant to stay becasue of your money.your better than that.
2007-03-12 23:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Frenchie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋