I had a girlfriend that I dated for about 8 months, who I thought was the most wonderful girl on the face of the earth. She decided she didnt' think we were right for each other and we broke up - not by my choice, but hers. We've been broken up for about 4 months. I've asked many people and most people say, just move on and you will find someone else. It's not that I don't believe that, but it's that I feel that she is worth fighting for. She is that special to me. Am I fooling myself that she is worth fighting for or that she will ever come back to me? Is anyone worth fighting for anymore? Has anyone had an experience where someone broke up with them and they still continued to love them and after some time they did come back? Please let me hear some successful stories of people who have gotten their true love back after breaking up with them. This girl is worth fighting for.
2007-03-12 23:41:44 · 6 answers · asked by gt5879c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can seriously say that are situations sound similar. I too dated a guy for 8 months. He had another gf and went back to her for financial security. After four months of no communication and just letting him know when he left that the door would always be open for him, he returned an email and wanted to see me. Communication and sex were always good with us, and when we talked after those 4 mos. it was like we were never apart. Except that I am almost divorced now, have a new car, and am self sufficient for myself and my son. I proved that I could survive without him. Now he has come back and is going to leave financial security for my love. He is moving in this weekend to spend the rest of time with me, my son, and his boys. So if you feel she is worth fighting for than perhaps my tactic can help. My friends too told me I was stupid, but in the end I got what I wanted-the man of my dreams!
2007-03-13 01:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by hljones1169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line has nothing to do with what you think, or for that matter what she thinks. Whether she is worth fighting for is a question that presumes the answer of no. No, your relationship is not worth fighting for, simply because you need two people to have a relationship and unless your a controling dictator, then if shes not on board its not worth it.
You might start your plan to win her back by having a talk with her. Let her point out what and why she doesn't want the relationship anymore and go from there. Most likely your in for a painfull struggle so I suggest abandon ship. Live to love another day my friend.
2007-03-12 23:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Tyson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not worth the hassle, why want a girl if she doesn't want you? it will never work! If she loved you, she wouldn't have left.
I know its hard to get over someone, but you have to move on, the more girls you talk to, the quicker you get over her too.
Don't just spend your nights at home all depressed, get out there and meet new people.
2007-03-12 23:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by Relationshipguro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give her the gift of missing you...date others for fun,...let her see you with other girls...dont rub it in her face, be real and mature about it ...if she doesn't like this and she likes you, she WILL be back ... do not fight ..sooo many women out there...enjoy and have fun..time will tell ..then, move on...
2007-03-12 23:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be worth fighting for, but if she doesn't want you, why fight?
2007-03-12 23:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-12 23:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by deadhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋