me and my girlfriend talk on the phone evryday, sometimes i run out of words... is that normal?

Question

me and my girlfriend talk on the phone evryday, sometimes i run out of words... is that normal? what should i do when it happens??

Answer 1

yes it can be normal if you are not a very talkative person. But if you are talkative and still u run ot of words, then may be its time to reconsider. May be u guys dont share common interests and thats the reason for running out of words.

Tips-
- sometimes talk about something that u did during the day!!!
- tell her that pertty much it for today, may be she tells you somethisng about her day or some story then, in case she does not then u both are fine and in a normal relationship. NO panic!!!

I was in a relationship for a year before getting married. We also faced similar things but its OK... u cant just keep talking everday. Some days can be less talking or NO talking days.... Use text messaging then....

And yes just for info we are happily married for 2 years now and expecting a baby very soon.....

Answer 2

Yes, it's normal. Not everyone can talk about the same stuff over and over, day after day. I would limit the conversation to a few minutes a day or night--Just say something like you love her & wanted to know what she's up to? You don't have to grill one another or dig deep to find something to say. I personally don't like the phone. I'd rather see people face-to-face. Keeping the conversation short should help. It doesn't mean you don't enjoy talking to her, it's just that it's normal to run out of things to say. It happens all the time.

Answer 3

you're def talking too much...
3 times a week for 10 minutes or so is the norm for nornmal people.
.it will get old and stale very quickly and then comes THE END..
go out and do things with her..anything and everything that you can so she and you will have much to remember and talk about make sense?
it is going to be spring soon and that means sooo many things will be fun and interesting to go and look at growing in nature and think of things from A-Z (there are hundreds of things to do and see(pick up a dictionary if you draw a blank )..maybe write them down on paper and do one every other day or week, etc...you will never run out...
good luck

Answer 4

Hell I last 2 minutes then I am expired, word wise. My partner can last 2 hours and she is just warming up. The experts say its hormones and the way the brain cells are wired. What to do? Just listen kid let the lady do the talking!

Answer 5

I don't know about you but I would prefer to speak in person...phones ..to me.. are for a quick message or two because of the distance between me and the person. Of course it is easier to have more to speak about when you are together than over the phone. I try to keep it short and sweet....good luck.

Answer 6

Of course. Try to take an interest in some things that she enjoys, and learn about it. This will spark new topics to talk about.

If you really want to press a button, ask about her feelings on different subjects. She will probably talk your ear off. Most women love to talk about their feelings.

Answer 7

Yes

Answer 8

When you talk that frequently, it's easy to run out of things to say. When you do, just call it a night, or talk about how hot you are for each other--that usually gets things rolling.

Answer 9

It's fine. Boys just aren't normally programmed to have conversations like girls do. Don't worry about it, say your goodbye for the night unless she has more she wants to tell you. Don't force conversation, it just makes things awkward. If you talk every day, it's not surprising you aren't full of new things to tell her.

Answer 10

Ya that's normal, because yu guys talks everyday, so yu will think that what shuld I ask bout anythin to her, coz yu shared everythin bout yourself to her, ya that's normar, just manage yur time with her