Should I apologize to her?

Question

This girl, whom I want more than a friendship with, and are very close friends with got into an argument last night. It started out as a conversation on MSN, I was at work by myself, and I work in a high stress area, she's actually a co-worker. The MSN conversation started off alright, I called her to keep me company on MSN and she did. She left me hanging on MSN and signed off after 10 minutes, so I called her and one thing led to another, and I told her that I hated her, at the time I meant it. She said "no that I didn't mean it." Anyways, I hung up on her in a sour note.

Normally I do't work by myself and there are others to help, some of the systems I don't know, 5 minutse after I hang up on her **** starts to happen and my company ends up losing 30k...I call her repeatedly for help because she knows the system, text her several time, because at this point we're losing about 1k per minute....of course she doesn't answer...why should she...

Should I apologize to her?

Oh, I think she's playing with me a little, that's why I don't want to apologize...but I shouldn't have said what I said over the phone.

Answer 1

3 things to know and say to women that will always keep you in good standing:
1) I was wrong
2) I'm sorry.
3)No, those pants don't make you look fat.

Answer 2

Definitely, but you shouldn't mix the relationship with your work routine. That's dangerous. I think you should apologize and try to maintain a business relationship, at best. As for anything other than that, I wouldn't recommend it. I've had experiences with co-workers which turned into affairs & then nightmares, and it is not easy working with someone when there are ill feelings or anger. It's unprofessional, and one or both could lose their jobs.

Answer 3

You was wrong. You aren't denying that so just tell her so . if not for your own sake just for the companies!

Good luck and be a man and apologise. there's not a shame at all in it really..

Answer 4

No and you both should be fired......