have you been doing that in your different belief relationship?

Question

my ex gf was of different belief than I ...I was a christian by knowledge and not a practicing one (I meant one who adheres to the phylosophy of thinking and the principles, but for whom going is not important) and she was a pure mystic , it means she never had practiced any faith in her life and trained to reject all religions, and practice spirituality without religion and without dogmas...There were a lot of things in her practice that contradicts mine ...she was like leaving in another world, being a completely different person ...I am generally an open-minded person ..although I believed strongly in the philosophy, I tried to understand her and works things out ...but, yet, she didn't respect my view on religion and wanted me desparately to join her practice ...although I understand her, but I couldn't join her practice ..her practice was more important for her than me and working things out .....and we had to breakup for that ..what do you think of that ? was I the bad guy ?

Answer 1

Inter-faith relationships can be difficult. I'm more spiritual than religious, and I have dated christian guys before now and it worked out fine in that respect because neither of us tried to 'convert' the other.
By acknowledging your differences and respecting them, you can avoid conflict in this area.
You ex wanted you to take on her religion, and you weren't cool with that, and that is your right.

You're NOT the bad guy, you just stayed true to your faith and that can only be a good thing.

Answer 2

if u really luv her n want ot be with her change the topic(don ever talk about this topic ever ever again) don try to change 1 person the way u want to because u won't like it if some 1 change ur lifestyle. hop u both happi and bless