my boyfriend has another email address i i found out it has his ex's email on it, he said he doesnt talk to her anymore but now in not sure if i should believe him. how should i talk to him abou this without seeming like im trying to control him?
2007-03-12 22:44:28 · 4 answers · asked by nip 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not controlling he has something to hide,confront him before its too late
2007-03-12 22:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. i beleive this is not controlling. If he has a second email address and you found out without him telling you, he is obviously hiding something. Confront him about it fully, just say whats on your mind, dont try and change it so it sounds less invasive either coz he may not get the point. If he says you are trying to control his life and who he sees and talks to, it means he's giulty and is just trying to make himself feel better by making you sound like you have done something wrong when infact he is in the wrong. Trust me i know.
2007-03-12 22:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without trying to control him? - wow, he's got you trained hey?
You are his girlfriend and if you are uncertain about something that he's doing you have a right to get answers from him.
What are the dates of the e-mails, recent?..if so then he's lying because he got caught..
2007-03-12 23:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
create a new account yourself.... and have someone he dont like to be in ur emailing list.. and tell him about it... be open abt it, share with him that you too have another account, say it with a genuine nice smile and maybe rub it in by saying... "everyone have secrets"... it will bug him very much... then go with the flow.... hah
2007-03-12 22:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dark Knight Diyar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋