I have a bf, we broke up, now i think about him all the time, i even cry and sometimes cant breathe. I know were no good for each other but i want to be with him so much. I cant be happy with him, but im even unhappier without him. Do i miss him, or am I just lonely.
2007-03-12 22:21:43 · 7 answers · asked by jen w 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give yourself some time - it does get better, please don't go back to him.
Compare the two situations - with him: guaranteed unhappiness, without him: tough and lonely times, but hope for something better, happiness..
Good luck :)
2007-03-12 22:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a chance you are suffering from C.O.L. syndrome. Wazzat? Change Of Life. If you are "no good for each other", which I see as somewhat dangerous(?); you should get him out of your life. There will always be a time where it hurts to do the right thing. Become your inner soldier, that is; carry on even though it is most painful. It will get better, trust me.
2007-03-13 05:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by LuckyJack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ...... i feel your pain...... I'm going thru the same dilemma...
but you know what it is OK to feel like that! and if you guys had something important with more reason... i would love to say that you are just lonely but not.. there is a part of you that still loves him.. but listen "still loves him" doesn't mean you still in love with him ... you can love a person for many different reasons.. give yourselves time, stay busy, don't do things that you guys used to do together, meet new people..............but don't try to find in someone else what you had with him cuz it won't work.... don't mistake companionship with love...
2007-03-13 05:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only an illusion. Once you get another boy for you, you will totally be out of the feeling. But atleast now be sure to choose a right one to marry and live for ever.
Wishes
2007-03-13 05:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound needy, lonely, insecure, immature and like you just need to be alone for awhile. Forget him. You're not happy with him, why settle?
2007-03-13 05:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just lonely. Wait a while, busy yourself and it will pass, eventually.
2007-03-13 05:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by bigjap2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r just fuked up
2007-03-13 05:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋