ok, about a year ago i went out with this guy who was 29 and i was 16(weird i know but i didnt think then). well i then found out he was married and had kids but was on a separation from his wife. then a while after that he went all strange with me and just stopped talking to me..txting evrything. i didnt know what to do so i just ignored him completely and avoided him at all costs. i then found out he was back with his wife because i wouldnt sleep with him but of course his wife would. about a year later in January just gone a get a call out of the blue and its from him tellion me he wants to talk and explain things. he then came into my work to talk and handed over a letter to me...long story cut short...he still says he loves me but hes wife is now pregnant and i cant get him to leave me alone. all i want his for him to realise what hes done and leave me alone. please help me, i dont know what to do.
2007-03-12 22:09:39 · 6 answers · asked by ohh baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this guy is seriously harassing you and you feel uncomfortable, look into getting a restraining order. Tell him how you feel first, and explain to him that he hurt you and you need him to leave you alone. Make it very clear how you feel and hopefully he'll have enough respect for you and that will work, if it dosen't then, seriously, look into legal action.
2007-03-12 22:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Luviticus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun you did exactly the right thing to begin with and avoided him at all costs, this guy is using you to satisfy his own ego. Whilst you are obviously mature enough to recognise that this is going nowhere he clearly thinks that he can manipulate you as you are so much younger and he really doesnt credit you with the intelligence you clearly have. Sure fire way to get him out of your life is to threaten to send the letter he wrote to his wife, trust me he will run a mile, good luck girl you are clever enough to find a man of your own and have a wonderfull relationship i wish you well. emma
2007-03-13 06:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him two choices - either you tell his wife of his 'undying love' for you or you call the cops on him if he does not quit bugging you.
Or just make the message loud and clear and tell him to get lost and tell him exactly what you think of him.
2007-03-13 05:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a pervert on your hands. If you really want this guy away from you, trot on down to the police station and let them know about this character. I'll bet a dollar to a donut, they already have a file on him.
2007-03-13 05:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he doesn't leave you alone,you'll tell his wife..Failing that,get a restraining order slapped on him..
2007-03-13 05:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by trish b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
threating to tell his wife darling if he dont leave you alone
2007-03-13 06:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋