my sister lies to my parents alot and they hve their bad moments. it was because she doesnt want to let go of her boyfriend. but my sister went way over the top and lied about going to church. She was bad at lying this because her story didnt make sense. what should i do?
2007-03-12 20:05:41 · 15 answers · asked by RS98 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Keep a diary on her untruths and when you have to have an alibi or coverup blackmail her into supporting you.
2007-03-12 20:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great anwswer poop.. right up there with the Lvl of your name...... Honestly, This is a thing where it depends on what her BF is like. Do your parents want her to stop because he is bad for her? into drugs, violance ext..? or is it they just don't like him? If this boyfriend is the bad type... your parents should know your sister is lying... if this is a your parents just don't like him for what ever reason.... then they need to deal with it on thier own.
2007-03-12 20:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Justin L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trap her in her own lies. If its hurting ur family, u going to have to do that for her own good.
But talk to her first, try to knock some sense into her, because once a child betrays their parents trust, its difficult to get back.
2007-03-12 20:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents the truth and let her face all her decieving. i have a sister who lies too. no need to hide the lie when it's only gonna come out later and even worser.
tell your parents. that aint no snitch. if your sister is scared of getting caught then she shoulda been straight up with your parents. your parents deserve more respect than having her lie and you cover it up.
2007-03-12 20:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by ladybleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to advise your sister not to lie or she will make things worst. Maybe you can advise her to bring her boyfriend to help on her study or doing cores or attend mass. Show to your parents doing positive things. It may help your parents to understand. Advise her not too serious on relationship if she still young.
2007-03-12 20:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by pondok75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, or ask "what is more important? your boyfriend or honesty?"
if she says "boyfriend" than UH-OH!!!! her boyfriend can lead to serious trouble. talk to her boyfriend. or at least say to her
" look, being honest might lead to bad things but you keep lying it will oh lead to BAD things, our parents might discover the truth and it will be worse than being honest. they might make you break up with your boyfriend. they might bring to serious matters! pls be honest."
if she says "honesty", GOOD! because you can say " hey! than tell the truth to mother and father! it might get bad but it will be better than mother and father discover your little secret while you are still lying!!!!"
good luck
2007-03-12 20:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Bluey306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her at once and give her a good advice. Ask guidance to the Lord
2007-03-12 20:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by pn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean i wonderstand why you are covering for her, Your her brother! brothers and sisters do that for each other, I would just tell her that if you caught her lying ''AGAIN" that you would tell give her a warning!!! And make sure she knows you really mean it! and then If she does lie....Then tell
2007-03-16 19:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by emeryl3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it let the parent handle it...there not dumb, if you get involved then you look bad and have a chance of getting into trouble
2007-03-12 20:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by Brenda A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to deal with this herself....even though you care for her you need to respect her enough to let her be and let her learn from her own mistakes....if she gets in trouble you know she wont do it again....and if she doesnt...then you had no reason to trip in the first place...
2007-03-12 20:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by Alisonnnnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋