I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc
she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back to let me know she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i was busy all week so i called her at the end of the week but no answer. she text me a few days later apologising, & she was having it hard and busy with work, but saying i should call her sometime during the day. considering the trends so far i am no fool - she will not answer.
what the hell went on?
2007-03-12 20:05:35 · 12 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
could be anything, pms, bad job, lousy cold, who knows. time to try it once again during the day, then if no answer , just forget her.
2007-03-12 20:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has a life? You are a guy she met one time and may have been attracted to or at least found you the best company available at that event. She may have been having a bad day or week. She may have Sprint cell like mine that does not tell you about calls missed when you are out of area and seems to have dead spots in odd places or one that doesn't work in some buildings and may have been in one when you 1st called bk. She may have thought if you were really interested you'd have called her when she suggested and decided that since you didn't she'd let you cool your heels a while. She may have a job that doesn't let her always have the phone on or always take a call. Who knows for sure? What you do know is that if you wanna talk w/ her text messages work. Given that most ppl would ignore a tm from someone they had absolutely no interest in why not just text her a hi. Or txt that you will be sort of busy for a while but will txt her when life gets civilized again. Then do it of you still want to see if a friendship or? is possible there. Or just ask your friend to ask his wife to find out whether there is an interest and if so maybe the 4 of you can get togehersome time and have them set it up w/her.
2007-03-13 03:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by A F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol u poor thing, hate 2 say it but only she can answer that question, i had a friend not talk 2 me 4 something like 6 months before ahe ever did talk again. I kept asking what i had done wrong but she never told me. To this day i still don't know. Good luck hope it all works out 4 u. maybe try 2 arrange to meet her soemwhere?
2007-03-13 03:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Katie L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she's playing mind games with you...or she really is just busy during that time. If a girl wasnt interested what so ever, she wouldnt bother returning your calls or your text. Since, you are busy as well, at the same time she might think the same way you're feeling??
2007-03-13 03:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing--she is busy--and that busy girl is always going to have you waiting and waiting--so why bother. she was probably half drunk at the wedding--most single girls at a wedding are drunk and easy to talk to--she sobered up and now she wants nothing to do with you--write it off and find some nice girl that has time for a good relationaship.Stop beating yourself up over something that never really was going to happen.
2007-03-13 03:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like both of you had a very busy week. I would give it one more shot and see where it goes from there. But some advise man don't bug her to death at least give her a chance to recieve your call and have the chance to call back. It's one thing to be persistant and another to be a bug-a-boo. Good luck
2007-03-13 03:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just because she was flirting doesnt mean she really likes you she probably had a few drinks or somethin idk but if she did like you then trust me SHE wouldve gave you her number just let it go maybe she really is busy but when she got home and relaxed if she liked you she wouldve called
2007-03-13 03:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try ...to contact her ONLY three more times ....each on
different days and times..mmm..per ex.10am+, 8pm+, 10pm+,
and if after the third attempt no answer.... lose her numbre
2007-03-13 03:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Roberto D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i know how u feel ive been through this one b4 actully more than once and to tell you the truth i didnt know up until it happened a week ago once again heres the story.............she met you........she really liked you ......she couldnt stop thinkin about you.....it scared her so she hooked up with someone else and is hiding it...........but she still likes you its just shes scared of real commitment.....some chicks are like that especially when theyve been hurt by a guy they care about......its kinda like they ****** it up for everyone so they date someone that means nothing to them
2007-03-13 03:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Shes not into you.. dont wast your time.
2007-03-13 03:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by violet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋