We stay in contact only through the net coz we r in different countries and its not possible to visit him.He introduced me to his bestfriend through the net and we became very close.For a couple of years my bf was really busy to come online and talk to me,but he tries his best.Now me and his bestfriend r really close and we love each other,he even tried to come to the same country i live in now to see me....now he is here working and we see each other more often......no one knows about our secret realtionship...we had sex .the problem is that i will be leaving to the country my bf lives and we r gonna get engaged soon.....i dunno how to live a proper life with one bf instead of 2 and i dunno whom to choose....they both love me soo much and i love them but sometimes i feel that my love to my boyfriend's friend is just not gonna work out for a long relationship that i want.Even if i just want my boyfriend,i dont want to hurt his bestfriend's feelings coz he loves me soo much.
2007-03-12 19:59:10 · 6 answers · asked by Natasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hunny, you should have been faithful to your man. Their best bud should be your last person to go to.
You're probably confused & whatnot, but you have to get your act together. If you don't want to be with your boyfriend, tell him!
Do not stick around in a relationship that you are unhappy in. That's the worst mistake ever.
Secondly, it will me a warp in the face to your (ex) bf, but if you have feelings for his friend, then you have to go for him. It will really hurt him, but you have to do what you think is right.
Don't beat around the bush with your bf. It will only hurt him more & it will hurt you, too. ♥
2007-03-12 20:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you got yourself into a pickle... You need to make a decision, but it's going to be bad no matter what :-(
At least it will be a learning experience to stay faithful
2007-03-12 20:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta find out who u really want/love the most
good luck
2007-03-12 20:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by fallingstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to find out what you really want cause you sound confused.
You find out what you want then youll be fine
Good Luck
2007-03-12 20:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone else see something wrong with this picture?
2007-03-12 20:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say, best of luck.
2007-03-12 20:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Khurram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋