So I have a great guy friend (he is not anything other than a guy friend... we have never "done" anything) Anyways, he recently figured out that I was ticklish on the sides of my belly... He doesn't tickle me very gently he is somewhat aggressive and playful about it (which tells me that he likes me as a friend)... but when I try and stop him he just kinda leaves his hands on my waist for a while (he stops tickling) and keeps his hands there for about 5-10 seconds... I'm a bit confused... His aggression shows that we are only friends, but does leaving his hands on my waist show that he might like me more than friends...
Is there anything that I can do while he is resting his hands on my waist that can determine if he likes me more than a friend?
No stupid answers please... This is a serious question and I would really like some reasonable answers...
Thanks ;-)
2007-03-12 19:50:41 · 9 answers · asked by make love not war 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's NOT ticklish
2007-03-12 19:57:09 · update #1
Hi,
u also put hand on his waist..and hold it..dont take it back..even he takes his hand....walk for some distance...u do like this some times on same or different days..observe his feelings..and then some times try touch ur body(breasts)..by mistake or something...observe his feelings..then one day u can go for hug..and when hugged at that time ask in his year d u like me.....
I hope i have suggestedd and happyy
-haahaaaaa
2007-03-12 19:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would just grab his hand (as in, hold it momentarily or something),
see how he reacts to it,
and just ask him straight up front.
Hopefully he won't say what he doesn't mean, or beat around the bush. But hey, they're guys. We can't really do much about their behavior :P
2007-03-12 20:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your signals are wrong trust me. I would not put my hands on a woman that I was not interested in because I wouldn't want to send mixed messages. And if he leaves his hands on your waist then duh he's feeling you. Still not convinced? Try to back up closer to him while his hands still rest on your waist and watch his reacton.
2007-03-12 20:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using body language to convey to you that he likes you; kinda "primal" thing.
If you don't like him doing it tell him so; but if you like him too and comfortable with him tickle him back..
guys like surprises sometimes !
2007-03-12 19:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just feeling you up... if you like him, then turn around, look at him...and smile...then close the gap, give him a hug,....and hold on.....
2007-03-12 20:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn around to face him...look into his eyes...and give hime the 'i want to kiss you' look...if he is giving it back...GO FOR IT!!!
good luck to you...
hey, you never mentioned if you like him as more than a friend or not...
f xxx
2007-03-12 20:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by >> fleur << 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go in for a kiss, it's that simple
2007-03-12 19:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Rick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after he does that, look into his eyes with that "kiss me" look
2007-03-12 19:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KISS
2007-03-12 19:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by AZN_PRIDE_987654321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋