would u give up on a guy that u have a crush on for like 4 months just because ur friend wrote him a love note and confess that she loves him on valentines day?
he found it in his locker on valentines day, and then like 2 hours later, he found out who she was. i sit next to him and we're pretty close, we tell each other all kind of things. one time he even told me someone made him cry!!! and on valentines day, i saw him staring at a little pink piece of paper. so i ask if i can read it and he lets me. i was pretty depress when i saw the note and then found out it was my friend that wrote it. although my friend didn't know that i like him, i was kinda mad at her. but i was mad at my crush even more because he found out who she was and kinda start ignoring me.
so would u give up without a fight to win his heart back?
2007-03-12 19:46:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not giving up without a fight but keeping your composure and letting things take their course.
The issue is if he has been with you for all this while and didn't notice you cared about him that itimately then he definately doesn't have the hots for you and should be left alone.
He is not worth the effort...but on the other hand if he is destined to be yours then relax he will be back.
Focus on your studies and leave him be for now.
2007-03-12 19:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dazanix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still have a chance. no harm in trying, right? maybe the guy just got interested with your friend because she made the first move and you haven't pretty much shown any love interest in him yet.
but before going into it, know the consequences and be prepared for it. your friend might get mad too once she knows that you both like the same guy.
2007-03-13 03:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by machi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple all is fair in love and war if it's not exclusive then it's on may the best girl win cause trust and believe you might have hid your feelings from him but your buddy knew or she would have at least told you about her feelings first
2007-03-13 02:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by swass2death 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. At this point, it's more like the early bird gets the worm- but the second bird can still make a try.
2007-03-13 02:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be mad at your friend if she didn't know that doesn't even make sense.
Sometimes guys are dense about things how do you even know he knows how you really feel about him.... You gotta let him know otherwise what is the point?
2007-03-13 02:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel and let him make up his own mind who he wants. It sounds like he is close to you anyway if he lets you into some of his personal thoughts and feelings.
2007-03-13 02:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by jimmer256 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're friend went for it first, so you should find someone else. Don't 'fight' for him, no guy is worth breaking up a true friendship for.
2007-03-13 02:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tom Foolery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was a guy taking my girl, yeah, i'd go kick some major ***. i'd do fairly well anything to get her, and then kick his *** just on general principle. but she's your friend, so ask yourself which is more important: your friend or your crush.
2007-03-13 02:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you advise your friend to do in the same situation?
2007-03-13 02:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by Conductor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they togehter, dont bother. if not, go for him!
2007-03-13 03:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋