Do men really go for the girls who dont give it up(sex) at all or dont give it up a lot(sex)?
Does sex punishment(not giving it up) really make guys act right?
2007-03-12 19:44:48 · 18 answers · asked by OOhSooFlyyyy....... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only if that guy is a weenie...
2007-03-12 19:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move when you feel the urge, and he should do likewise, if one of you isn't ready back off. Very simple rules of engagement. Sex shouldn't be used as a punishment, it is supposed to be a special thing. But, when you take your time to make things special like have a great meal and then great sex, or watch an awesome basketball game and then have great sex you will train him to believe that sex with you is awesome. Then you should have great sex most of the time, but if you have sex for every event...it will become a chore and not a desire. If you saw your favorite male actor walk in your home with suit promising you the world...you would go crazy with happiness, but if that jerk came in everyday saying the same thing. AND NOTHING EVER CHANGED, WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE HIM ANOTHER TIME. No, of course not. GOOD Luck
2007-03-12 19:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by Heero Yui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Do you have any idea how many women do that. Then when there boyfriends or husband have affairs, they cry "He's so mean! He doesn't love me!"
Give me a f***ing break. Why do so many of you girls have to be so DUMB? If we all just keep our guys satisfied, then they wouldn't have the strength to even look at another woman.
If you want a man to treat you like a queen and cherish everything about you, then you need to make sure that he can't wait to get home every day. If you can do that, then you will have a PERFECT man. (slave)
2007-03-12 20:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me being a guy don't think it makes us act right, however, men do go for women who aren't "giving it up." It's almost like a challenge for us. Not speaking for everyone, but i know how i can go without it for a period of time and it doesn't affect me at all. Besides, if a woman asks a man to wait, then he should be a man and wait. This shows a woman respect and in return she might give you what you want. I hate to say it, but women rule the world because they control our population :)
2007-03-12 19:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by aharold4027 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When sex is involved in a relationship, it either strengthens the bond or cause a couple to fall apart but when it is used as a punishment in whatever way, its not going to be a very healthy partnership.
2007-03-12 19:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...my bf (who I have now been with for a year) was only my second (I'm 23) and he couldn't believe it. He was real cautious about doing anything with me bc he totally respected my morals and self-respect...He told me he thought it was the most awesome thing. But to each his own...some guys really don't care...some might be scared off by the whole waiting thing. Just make sure before you jump into that with anyone that you know the person well.
2007-03-12 19:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't. Sex should never be used as a punishment.
2007-03-12 19:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys like the girls who dont give it up that easy as girlfriends but they like the ones who give it up alot as f*** buddies
2007-03-12 19:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you cant make a guy do what you want by making threats to not make love to him, guys who are young go for girls who give it up , but they dont really fall in love with them, thats just lust, so if you arent ready to give it up, dont . let a man romance you until you are ready,
2007-03-12 19:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't work. We drop you and move on. Would you like it if we gave you financial punishment and made you pay for everything?
2007-03-13 02:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by hot_john_dog1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The men I know always have enjoyed the challenge. and for
your peace of mind please understand that the fun is in the chase, mystery, intrigue and lots of adventure to make life interesting. with the knowledge that you are truly worth the wait.
2007-03-12 19:52:48 · answer #11 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋