Short Story: My boyfriend and I plan on getting married. The problem is that we lost our virginities to each other. Therefore, our experience is limited to each other. We are completely compatible and have a great sex life. I want to stay with my boyfriend but I don't want him to have any regrets later on. So, should we take a break and experience other people or stick it out (making either a terrible mistake or a well worth risk)?
2007-03-12 18:56:36 · 21 answers · asked by dumdum4eva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it and see what he says. Maybe he's thinking the exact same thing you are. You never know ;)
2007-03-12 19:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lizzy Dee, sex with the one you love is the BEST, would you like to have taken your clothes off and had sex with someone and have the feeling of being exposed in a bad way and having the feeling of regret, if your sex life is great with the one you love then i guess when you have a a wonderful night you float around the next day like you are walking 6feet above the ground, so what i'm saying is you don't need to experience the downs if a cheap *** root with a stranger, enjoy the one you LOVE.
2007-03-13 02:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by pork_choppie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are both of you? If both of you are still young, then it'd be a mistake to get married now. Are you both working? Going to college? Are you ready to really settle down and start raising a family? Think hard about this, because it'll have a definite impact on your future.
I think that it'd be best if both of you took a breather from one another. Chances are that you will find someone else interesting, and wished that you hadn't married so soon. But if you find that neither one of you can't be without the other after parting ways for awhile, then I guess it was meant for the two of you to stay together.
2007-03-13 02:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by midnyt12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to the one. I say that for experience because I did the total opposite. I started experiencing other people instead of taking just one guy serious, and I ruined everything. Now I am all by myself, and people misjudge on the long run. I wouldn't recommend that to you, it's not worth the risk at all.
2007-03-13 02:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT go with other people, trust me, not only will it ruin your relationship in so many different ways, you will both be ultimately dissapointed. Aside from that, there's the risk of catching certain STDs that you won't even realize you have untill you've spread them to eachother.
The reason that people should wait untill they are married is so that they don't experience more than one sexual partner, it really has nothing to do with marriage other than commitment to that one partner. Even if you try other people and return to eachother, there will then be points in your relationship where you will both feel really insecure.
2007-03-13 02:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try this dangerous adventure. If you want to stay with him then why try seeing elsewhere what it is like. You both discovered love together so keep it like if possible. And don't be afraid of him having regrets. If he had he would not plan on marrying you.
If you really want some new experience then prefer watching porn. It is far less dangerous.
2007-03-13 02:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by kl55000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your sex life is great, and you want to stay together, why would you want to see what else if out there? your question makes no sense to me...the sex you have within a loving relationship will be milestones better than any meaningless sex that you have just for the experience.
2007-03-13 02:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by jennyvee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STICK OT OUT GIRL!!wat u 2 got is really hard to find these days.if u luv eachother and the sex is great there shouldn't be a thing to worry about or regret! just keep eachother happy & sexually satisfied (KEEP THE SEX EXCITNG AND BE OPEN TO KNEW "THINGS")
2007-03-13 02:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by mida-mida 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stick it out with him. None of that groups sex you could end up getting an STD from them.
2007-03-13 20:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you see yourself spending the rest of your life with him? Does he see his life with you in it forever?...you should ask him that...and look at all the factors...how old you two are...how long have you two been together...what are your plans for the future?...do your plans fit together?...talk to him about all of this and you two should decide for yourselves...but whatever you do decide remember it is going to be a memory one day...Is it going to be a good one or a good lesson?
2007-03-13 02:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by djsbabygirl2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stick with "the one" if you have never been with anyone else, how do you know you're missing out on anything? maybe what you two have is perfect b/c it isn't just sex/lust it's deeper (emotionally) and you won't have to worry about STD's :o)
2007-03-13 02:00:18 · answer #11 · answered by Christina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋