There is this guy I met last year that I CANNOT stay away from. I am drawn to him. I am not sure what it is but i believe it is lust... which is scary because I am in love with a guy i have been with for 6 years and I cannot resist this guy.. and i do not want to cheat. This guy is in Iraq.. but should be back any day now! What should I do!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 18:18:42 · 8 answers · asked by Denise G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you're really in love with the guy you've been with for 6 years, you'll be able to stay away from this other guy. Crushes happen to everyone even married people, but couples who are commited to eachother don't act on it. Keep it to your fantasy life and focus on the man you love.
2007-03-12 18:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's part of life. Been there done that...I think it's a personal choice...but if you are really not wanting to cheat cut ties!!! If you really want to do it...do it just don't get caught...lastly make sure he's worth it...or at least make it be worth it.....for you anyway especially if you are going to risk a 6 yr relationship...
one last thing you might want to rethink your situation with your guy...i actually was happy and content once (for a short time) and could not ever fathomed cheating which told me that i was with the right person (although I as usual screw that up somehow)
hopefully you will "do you" and make yourself happy..because if not...guess what....you could end up with Mr. Iraq and be going through this all over again!!
Good Luck...Have fun..
2007-03-13 01:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by SCRAWFORD2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in love with the boyfriend then your should not be asking this question - you have no choice but to resist the other guy. Temptations come and go - if you let them. Don't do things that you'll look back on in your life and have to say, "wow, I really hurt someone."
It is just as you said, LUST, so let it go. It will pass.
2007-03-13 01:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Patch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?cos of lust u enjoyed very much!but it's only temporary.u r better forget about lust n concentrate ur love to someone is the right way n d only way.unsecured sex w'd endanger ur live as there r HIV,AIDS,VD etc.take care.
2007-03-13 01:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a chastity belt for cryin out loud! SHEESH! And we thought guys were bad.
2007-03-13 02:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run for your life .come on you can't be cheating your boy friend for some cheap sex.what if he had to say that he loves sleeping with a nother girl?
2007-03-13 01:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by alec. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you shoulding be asking us you need to ask you self that question and be real in you heart
just choose who you want
2007-03-13 01:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by ecstazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pursue your passion, or you'll never forgive yourself. Afterwards you can decide between them, if you feel you should.
2007-03-13 01:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋