Is it wrong for a mother to walk her daughter down the aisle even though the father will be present?
2007-03-12 18:17:40 · 17 answers · asked by Chikkie_98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I am assuming that you are no longer with her father? If that is the case, her father should still walk her down the isle unless there is a rift between father and daughter or something. Then you could walk her down. If she chooses her father, then you should be escorted down the isle by a groomsman.
2007-03-13 12:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong if it feels right for you. If I still had my parents on my wedding day I would have had them both walk me down the aisle, instead I had my mothers sister and my fathers brother. It was lovely and a really meaningful modern take on tradition.
2007-03-13 09:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by scatty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make? Do what the mother and daughter WANT to do. If these choices are going to cause a problem, then have her get married someplace without an aisle.
There are no rules - just do what makes you all happy.
2007-03-13 01:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bael 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not wrong - you can do what you want. I personally like the weddings where the woman walks halfway up the aisle and the groom meets her and they walk the rest of the way together.
So mature and modern and romantic...
2007-03-13 01:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by GranolaGurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think whatever the bride decides is what is right. It is her choice.
When I got married I had both parents walk me down the aisle. My Dad and Stepmom came out together, he walked back to meet my mom and they walked me down after I came out. Of course you don't want to offend anyone, so if your dad is hurt maybe you can work on a comprimise. Remember, this is YOUR day! Good luck!
2007-03-13 01:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. But if Daddy is paying for it...you're on very thin ice.
Remember, no matter what, its your wedding and although its ok for your mom to walk you down the aisle - even if it wasn't - its your wedding.
2007-03-13 01:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.... you can have things how ever you want its your wedding day. Even though everyone has the saying " daddy's little girl, or mommy's little boy" you can do whatever. If you are closer to your mom than you dad go for it. If its gonna cause a big problem than have them both walk you down the aisle.
Good Luck
2007-03-13 08:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope it is not wrong. A little strange unless your father has not been around much but not wrong.
Have who YOU want walk you down the aisle.
2007-03-13 12:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's fine! Both my parents are walking me down the aisle, but there will be no formal giving away. I think that's so ******* degrading.
2007-03-13 01:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless the church says you can't (i don't think it will), you should be fine.
Just make sure you talk to the father first so he doesn't expect it then get hurt.
Is there a particular reason for the father not walking her down? just wonderin'
God Bless
2007-03-13 01:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋