should i stop going to the same church as her? I think about her all the time and i try not too but shes so fine. She wears these really sexy outfits everytime i see her and these sexy leather black boots. Why would a woman like her be such a tease and in church? Another problem is I see her everywhere i go it seems in stores, at the mall, at the library its like shes following me this is all just too wierd. I try not to think dirty thoughts about her but i cant help it what do i do??
2007-03-12 18:16:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your young but hopefully not stupid. you betta leave that mans wife alone and tend to your own dam wife
2007-03-12 18:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can think about her all you want I suppose, but it seems like a waste of time. How would you like it if your wife was mooning over some guy? Since you see her all over town, not going to the same church does not seem like the solution. I doubt she would give you the time of day much less a sexy afternoon. She is just a tease and loves the attention her looks get her. She probably is terrible in bed because she is all show and no go.
2007-03-12 18:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexy outfits in church! This one's looking for trouble.eheh But not you.
How would you feel if your young wife should notice some sexy man in the neighbourhood??
Eyes are made for watching, we say here in Italy. But, be happy with what you have.
Sometimes we think that when we are married it's forever. That's boring. And we start looking around. Well, it's not forever. If you lose interest, your wife will notice it. We must do things to make marriage work. Do something exciting with her (yr wife!), so she won't start looking around too!! :-)
It's not a dirty thought that ruins things. It's what may come later! Risky...
2007-03-12 21:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Silvia N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You NEVER leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love. I know that you may think that you have the hots for her, and that may be the case. But i guarantee you that its just a fling. Youll get over it. You just have to think about you're wife and the commitment you made to her. Stuff like that happens all the time. Adam was in the same situation with the forbidden apples. Its all temptation. You have to eliminate temptation. If it seems like shes following you around, change you're schedule. If thats not possible then do everything in your power to make sure that she doesn't interfere with your life. Take a picture of your wife along with you. Every time you think about her, pull the picture out and just look at it. I'm sure you'll start to think about her and how much you love her. But the best advice i can give you is what i first said. 'Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you life will leave you for the one he/she loves. I hope i was of some assistance.
2007-03-12 18:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by <*Psyco*> 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do absolutly nothing. If moving churches is necesary, then do so. Other wise keep your focus in one place when ever you enter church. Your preacher tells you to do it all the time.
Spend some time with your wife and realize that she is the only sexy woman your life. Were all going to be tempted to look the other way from time to time but keep your mind focused on your reality. You can get past this.
2007-03-12 18:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Quite Frankly with TheFokalist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're freaking married!!! Do you love your wife? Do you plan on breaking her heart? Your feelings for the other woman are nothing. They are mere natural human desire. You'll get over her eventually. Your wife should be your forever. If not, then why are you married?!
2007-03-12 18:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, 26. Your still young. But first rule: don't mess with another man's wife.
Second rule, if you love your wife, then all you will do is fantasize.
If you are stalking her, you are wrong.
2007-03-12 18:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like trouble waiting to happen. church is for god not
for sining. get your self together both of your are marry
so do what is right.
2007-03-12 18:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a fling with her? ... no just kidding dont cheat. just take cold showers. avoid her, and have s.e.x with your wife instead. buy her something sexy that turns you on. get over the married girl, its bad news.
2007-03-12 18:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up
2007-03-12 18:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by rhymingron 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋