when I go home at the end of the day I go in my room and some times I cry my self to sleep.
2007-03-12 18:08:40 · 14 answers · asked by stephanie e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to like yourself first!!! who cares what others think. guys are cruel when they are young... and we dont get a whole lot better when we grow up. the ones who are mean to you arent the ones you want to be around anyway, so just be glad they are showing their true colors before you waste any time on them.
2007-03-12 18:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by UCF Jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look really hard at the ones who are overt about it. Look at their home life..it is probably pathetic and they channel the punishment down to you.
I believe that almost all people have some kind of beauty, some are just better looking than others...Looks aren't everything though and you may not be ugly at all....
Don't take what they say as fact....the truth is, there is a guy out there that has been looking for you.
When I met my wife, I felt she was the one I have looked for all my life.
If it makes you feel better, I had a few popular girls shoot me down my freshman year in HS, later in life, their opinion of me changed 180 degrees. Of course the tables turn! Believe me, I know.
2007-03-12 18:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by tito_swave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw, don't ever let anyone tell you how you look. its for you to decide and a lot of people are dumb! i'll bet you you're just so stunning they get to nervous to approach you in any way other than to tease you. don't take what any of them say to heart. you just look at yourself and see a beatiful girl and that's what you are, especially inside.. and all those people are the ugly ones, the people that need such a self esteem boost that they have to put others down. honestly, don't let them get to you. they'll be regretting it someday when they'll want you and you'll have nothing to do with them because they've already shown you their true colors, and your colors are brighter. good luck, and things will get better. never forget that you truely are a beautiful person, and nothing anyone says will ever change that.
2007-03-12 18:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by brittaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, boys are mean, especially in puberty. When they are rude to you let them know you could care less. They are doing it to get a reaction. How do you feel about yourself? Self esteem and self confidence is attractive in anybody. I suggest you ignore them, be good to yourself, and do what makes you happy. These guys are running on hormones only, the intellegience comes later in life. You will survivie, just remember,no one can make you feel or do anything unless you allow them to. don't allow them. Talk to your parents, and try to do somethings to boost your selfworth. Good luck, oh, you are beautifull because you have a comapssionate heart and that over encompasses everything. Because you are sensitive you are going to make someone very happy one day. God bless.
2007-03-12 18:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Shyler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Boys are really immature, but I would be willing to bet you within the next 5 years, some of the same boys that are calling you ugly, will be hitting on you.
Don't let it bother you, some guy will appreciate you for who you are. If not, kick the meanest one in the nuts, they won;t call you ugly anymore.
2007-03-12 18:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, thats so sad! I feel sorry for you. Well i know its sad but they are a bunch of idiots. If all they care about in a girl is looks then forget them. They are the guys who are not worth worrying about anyway. When you leave school guys will mature more and they won't care about your looks. It's the inside that counts. They are mean people and you should ignore what they say!
2007-03-12 18:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them, maybe you'll find the boy of your dreams someday. It doesn't always have to be the boys in ur school. Plus don't feel down if u are hated just ignore them and get over it, that's my motto. Good Luck!
2007-03-12 18:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by johnnytsao1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. I'm sure you are beautiful and you're young. Don't give up on yourself because some mean boys who probably aren't good enough for you call you names. Cry let it all out but don't put yourself down because of that.
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2007-03-12 18:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by daisyvb_1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those boys are really mean and you should try and stay as far away form them as you can. Make friends with people who are kind. I'm sure there are nice people at your school. Try talking with the counsler too.
2007-03-12 18:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness what meanies! You shouldnt listen to them, people just want you to feel miserable! Everyone is beautiful because of the way they act as Themselves. Dont change yourself! You are perfect the way you are and you should be proud :)
2007-03-12 18:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by BalletRocksGal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋