like he drives fast and he got pulled over for it 2 times this week.
like i dunt know what to say
either b on his side or tell him to slow down ...i dunt know so far he has 2 tickets.
2007-03-12 18:07:33 · 22 answers · asked by blazzingred30 2 in Cars & Transportation ➔ Safety
Don't say anything. Men don't like women who nag all the time.
2007-03-13 00:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Trump 2020 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell him straight up, that he needs to slow down, and tell him he could kill a innocent person, or he could easily kill you and his silly self.
Also ask him how many tickets can he afford on top of normal car expenses? I bet not much.
I guess he is lucky he is not in Aussie, as police can impound a "hoons car" in some parts of Aussie, they not only have the cost of the fine, but huge fine from the courts, putting a dent in the back pocket. The hoons could also possibly even lose their job because they can't get to & from work, or drive work vehicles etc.
If my daughters boyfriend was caught speeding twice in one week, then he'd hard pushed to go any where with her, as he'd banned from driving with her any where. Thankfully he is a fairly good driver, and my daughter speaks up loud and clear if he does any thing stupid.
Another thought is to refuse to get in the car if he speeds while you have been in the car. Call your parents for a ride home if need be.
Good luck and stay safe.
2007-03-12 20:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by neadles61 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He will get tired of getting the tickets.. if you dont agree with him and his speeding, dont be on his side - but dont be rude about it either.. just say something like " gees, honey at the rate your going you'll have to get a second job just to pay for all those tickets" - Just something to let him know that you really thinks its quite silly.. but not bitching at him for it.. He will learn to slow down real quick.
2007-03-12 18:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by callmecouture 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok listen closely..
First look at him when you get in the car and before he pulls off, say I think that you should try driving slower. I feel in danger when you drive so fast. And that I dont want either of us to get hurt or for you to hurt anyone else. Please be more careful when y ou drive or else I cant get in the car with you anymore. That is really the only thing you can do, tell him dont side with him.
2007-03-12 18:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by slace2k 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are putting your life at risk.Give him the ultimatum. Drive sensibly or I do not ride with you.There is no need to speed and to 'show off' or try to impress you with his driving abilities.Tell him you are very impressed when he is driving in a sensinble manner and this shows maturity.You want a 'Man' that will respect your wishes.If he does not abide and he is going too fast.Ask to stop at a place to go to the Ladies Room and then call someone to pick you up.
2007-03-12 18:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by tturbod2001 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well....obviously he must not care to much let alone care about you if hes driving like that with you in the car..so tell him slow down.or dont even say anyhting at all and let him learn the hard way... more tickets, losing his license, or even worst getting hurt or hurting someone else...eitherway one of these days hes bown to figure it out wether it being the easy or hard way.
2007-03-15 05:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Briteblueize20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Make him fill out an organ donor card, it's actually quite a chilling experience because you have to confirm which bits of you you would like to donate after death. It sobered up my driving quite a lot.
2. Make him seriously think about what he wants his funeral to be like.
3. Tell him that if he doesn't sober up his driving, you will not be a passenger in his car.
2007-03-13 00:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Say "Look babe I really care about you and I don't want to see you get hurt. That's why when your driving I want you to go the speed limit. I don't want to see you hurt in a car crash because it would hurt my heart if something happened to you. I'm so worried about your fast driving, so could you slow down for me. I just want us to be together forever and I don't want anything to jeopardize that."
2007-03-12 18:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by candigal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to slow down before he gets his car taken away by having so many tickets
2007-03-13 10:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to slow down..and when you're driving with him say you're getting car sick or something. Remind him that the laws and speed limits are there to protect him and others.
2007-03-12 18:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jaroo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
say, if you want to be with me, either I drive and you shut up, or you drive like a regular person. If not, I'll meet you wherever or simply dump you.
Your life is worth more than a showboater.
2007-03-12 18:11:13 · answer #11 · answered by Eric F 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋