I'm 22 & have had sex with 5 guys (7 if you count oral), all between the ages of 17 and 37. I also have a history of cheating, including breaking off an engagement by sleeping with an ex-boyfriend. I've been called a sl*t & a whore, do you think that I am one? Also, what do you think I can do to change my reputation & how long will it take??
2007-03-12 17:55:06 · 1 answers · asked by KC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn to love. Sorry its the truth. Seems like your still looking around trying to find it on the outside. Unfornatly its an inside job that your going thru all the steps to aviod. Usually thats what they'll call you a sl*t or a whore. Whats really going on is that your just tearing yourself apart doing everything you can from feeling any intensity of emotion about the situations you've been in. Chances are you come from a family thats extremely emotional distance which makes it hard for you to connect with people. I'd venture to guess you don't have many best-friends, maybe plenty of "friends" but no one with long history unless they share the same problems as you. How long could be right now, thats up to you. As far as reputation thats an insecurity you shouldn't worry about anyways its your life and you love yourself, f them. The other thing to remeber is that some people find one person, one partner and live wonderful fullfilling lives, your going thru multiple partners and your wondering if thats ever going to happen. Its your perspection thats kill you and making life hard. Find someone who you can love and make some love.... the rest well fix itself. O another thing: Be Darn Careful Who You Love! Its all pretty complicated but great awards to those who figure it out.
2007-03-13 05:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋