Well I've been with my bf for 10 months, I love him, but I am super lonely. I don't want to cheat on him, but I am lonely what should I do???
2007-03-12 17:48:18 · 19 answers · asked by tha_best 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can't you just go visit him? I need to know more about the situation. Have him buy you a plane ticket-like ASAP or else a sista might have to bust down!!!
2007-03-13 09:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships never work out. For one you can't know what he's doing and vice versa. And there really isn't any relationship when you both are apart from each other. And if you don't want to cheat on him then break up with him because you just might and it will make you feel horrible. And if you are lonely hang out with your friends, the best alternative. And if after that you still feel lonely. . . email me.
2007-03-12 17:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long relationship don't work that well. I mean if I was a guy dating a girl for 10 months in a long distant relationship, I would have already cheated on her. So I think you should rethink the long distant thing, maybe take sometime off and find a new guy to experience.
2007-03-12 17:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel I am in the same boat and it s super hard I miss him sooo much but love is patient and trusting just have faith that in the long run it will make the relationship that much stronger absence makes teh heart grow fonder.. I get to see my bf once every other month if that for maybe 2 hrs each time I see him i relaize that it will make us able to trust each othe rmore. Dont give up if you REALLY love him
2007-03-12 17:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by jtsnowluvr06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe long distance should be long gone.
Had this girl I thought I loved, & waited for, 4 years, but she lied to me the whole time.
Another ended up just taking my money.
I don't think it is worth it. Get a local man. You will be much happier. He can find a girl over there.
Besides, the 2 families will be split apart, & unless your rich, this is so hard on everyone.
2007-03-12 17:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. i was in a long distance relationship too. and at the end we went over a month with out seeing each other. and i had other guys hitting on me all the time. and i would flirt with them but i would feel soooo bad about it afterward. but i ended my relationship with my bf before i took anything anyfather with anyone else. it was hard. but im sure it was easier then if i would have waited or he would have found out that i was flirting with other guys.
2007-03-12 17:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by right_field_cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in Iraq, develop some other interests. Join a team, a club, a political action group. Take a class. Keep your mind and body busy. Live with it ike other service men's wives and girlfriends.
If he is someone you met on the Internet, consider dropping him and finding a man in your area who you can see in the flesh.
2007-03-12 17:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anne Jovie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well considering it a long distance relationship i would move on and it might be a little hard, but why spend your life loving someone who can give you what you need. unless you plan to move closer together. you have needs that the relationship cant give you when its long distance.
2007-03-12 17:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it worth it?
For how long?
If your really young (23 and under) and it is for an extended period of time it will be tough.
Find something to keep you busy!!
2007-03-12 17:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by iamspiderdad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it and go out with the boy next door. Loneliness will eventually get the best of you, anyway.
2007-03-12 17:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋