I whent out with him for a 2 year's and I just cant seam to get him out of my head.
2007-03-12 17:47:19 · 21 answers · asked by stephanie e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take some English classes. It will get your mind off him and also teach you how to spell basic words like "went", "seem", and "should" properly.
2007-03-12 18:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up a new activity that you have always wanted to do - Scuba diving, bowling, knitting, volunteer work, sell magazines, bake pies, answer Yahoo questions....
Do something that will 1) enrich your life, 2) make you happy, and 3) allow you to meet other people.
This is not to get you dating again, but you would be meeting people that are doing what they like to do, so they would generally be happy and willing to share in this new hobby.
i.e. The only thing that cyclists like to do more than riding is to talk to other cyclists.
Being around people in a good mood, and learning a new skill or hobby will help to preoccupy your mind with happy thoughts.
Best of luck...we've all been there, and it sucks. But I promise that it does get better.
2007-03-13 00:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Surfer Dad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years is a long time, I have been through it all too. The best thing you can do is focus on YOU. Join a sport or start excercising, go dancing,shopping, hang out with your girlfriends. Change some aspect of your life and it might be a little easier to start forgetting that he was a big part of your life, who knows you might meet someone else while you are out and about??? Good luck girl.
2007-03-13 00:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by melissah c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can look forward or backward, it's entirely your choice. The best way to get a guy out of your head is to boot him out. Cut off contact if you haven't, enjoy the company of other people, both male and female, and don't worry about being alone. You are thinking on him because you have not accepted that he is not coming back. It sucks because when you accept that there is always that feeling of humiliation of being 'expendable' but you know, it's the nature of the beast I guess, dating sucks. Accept the reality but don't feel bad about it, things happen, it is not a reflection on your worth as a person. Commit yourself to being happy, happiness is a choice, ACT happy and your emotions will eventually catch up to you. It sounds corny but I have found it to be true.
2007-03-13 00:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by tiny_dog10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its interesting. Do you still love him? possibly you do and it the reason as to why you still think about him.
Anyway i can assist you to forget him in the following way.
Make your self busy with other things or invite invite other pple during those times wen you think about him.
- For a while stopping going to them very places you used to go to with him.
Stop calling him.
- Erase all that make remember him eg. put away the messages, photos.
Confess or speak out that you dont love him anymore. this will help you so much.
- Above all keep yourself busy with other stuff and people. being idle brings back the past memories.
Go to bed when your completely tired and ready to sleep than going there to start thinking about him.
2007-03-13 01:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by christian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to let go. Try to keep yourself busy with your work or your group of friends. Go out and meet new friends. Do something or learn a new hobby. Get interested in exercise which is good for you and your body. When you feel lonely, just have a good quiet time with your family or your favourite pet. Enjoy!
2007-03-13 00:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not going to be easy, i can tell you that. two years is a long time to spend with one person and when you love someone, you dont EVER forget them. i wish you the best of luck with your situation because i know how hard it is to loose a love...i do grant you this:whatever is meant to be, will be. no matter how long it takes, whatever was destined for you will end up being. i know that doesnt make it any easier, but it's the honest truth. I really hope your heart heals and you become happy, whatever that takes.
2007-03-13 00:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by *mommy to two* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is find a hobby that has nothing to do with him. Another good one is going to a party and find a sexy dude to hook-up with for a good, clean night of fun. I would personally have some ritualistic burning or purging of the memory of my ex. If all else fails...get drunk with your girlfriends and see what happens.
2007-03-13 00:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Kingmambo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal to have your ex's image in your head after two years. Accept that, and try to engage yourself in other activities, even when you don't feel like it. Remember you lived your entire life up till you met him with out him, so youcan move on and keep living now. Journal, and get out and have fun, splurge on yourself, pamper yourself, and go out and flirt. Flirting is the quickiest way to forget about him and boost your self esteem. Good luck.
2007-03-13 00:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Shyler 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over someone. This is the part of love that parents try to cover up. Parents don't want you to hurt like they have been hurt. Everything takes TIME, be patient and understand that it takes time to get over a person and more time to realise that we are capable of loving someone else. Time is all we have and all that we can give at this time. Take care Heather
2007-03-13 00:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋