last weekend i went to the bar and his band was playing there....he came over to say hi to me. Then as the night went on, I got really really drunk, to the point that I almost passed out there. He "ditched" his band and offered to walk me home. When we got back he tried to kiss me but I didn't let him....well that's bc I just dont like making out with strangers. Then he asked for my number and said he would call me the next day before he left town...the thing is, he hasn't :(
I have an enormous crush on him and I have looked his band up on myspace...should I try to get in touch with him? I know I'm dreamy but I like this guy, a lot!
2007-03-12 17:46:31 · 7 answers · asked by kittytie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! don't look him up. He would call if he was interested. Give it time maybe he will...maybe he won't. If he doesn't oh well move on ... He may have walked you home cuz you were drunk and thought he was going to tap that azz girl! That's not a really good last impression to leave someone with so I would not hold my breathe on that one. Don't feel bad we have all done something stupid or crazy. Just Be careful....
2007-03-12 17:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Diva Dee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope...you guys played by the traditional rules, He asked you for your number and said he would call...he didn't. I would assume the worst. But that doesn't mean it is the worst. So what am i saying? I would not expend too much energy in trying to find this guy but asking around about when and where this band is playing next might be the way to go. Then show up at another show and see how it goes but I really wouldn't expect too much. There is the possibility,( and I know you don't want to hear this) but there is the possibility that he walked you home only because he knew you were drunk and wanted to see how far he could get with you and once you refused his advance he left you with alittle dignity by asking for your number but had no intentions of calling. Sorry to say, but there are guys out there like that which might be a reason to stay within your limits when it comes to drinking in the future in public....Good Luck!
2007-03-13 00:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by chcman74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm was a road musician for almost 10 year and believe me the only reason he walked you home was to take advantage of you..i'm not saying all musicians are like this but believe me a good 99% of them are slam bam thank you mam kind of guys who usually allready have girlfriends or wives back at home..so don't waste your time with this pig..and move on to someone who will respect you and not cheat on you every time he gets a chance..
2007-03-13 00:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by rcbrokebones 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i would you know hes into you and its sounds like you really like him too so give it a try whats the worst that could happen??
2007-03-13 00:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you barely know him
you just think you like him a lot, probably because he's in a band (and that's hot)
if he didn't call you when he said he would, he's a jerk and not worth it anyways
2007-03-13 00:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ocean Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. its not like he is going to and that point was already proven. just message him on myspace and ask whats up and let it go from there.
2007-03-13 00:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by mary m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should keep trying.
2007-03-13 00:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Female 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋