I have discovered that this scenario exists with BOTH sexes.
Men and women SAY they want a serious relationship, but
when a serious relationship presents itself, they back down
and say they're only looking for friends.
I firmly believe both men and women should say EXACTLY
what they want (if they even KNOW what they want), and be
ready to accept that which they asked for.
2007-03-12 17:53:58
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answered by SlownEasy 4
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I don't know how old you are but it would be cool to know more about you and your interest. O.K. enough about me.
You can find the good ones anywhere but it's more about keeping your eyes open because I'm pretty sure that there are some right under your nose that you don;t even give the time of day to. On top of that do a little soul searching and see if there's anything that you could do to change your current situation. Sometimes a little self reflection can help out a lot. Good luck.
2007-03-12 17:44:23
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answered by ltwatkins77 4
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you're no longer a loser when you consider which you're a virgin at 20. good lord, who advised you that? There are too many sluts residing interior the international on the instant who supply it up and not utilising a theory. a minimum of you have saved your self for somebody particular. once you grow to be an previous woman, one in all your perfect concepts could desire to be the 1st time you made love with somebody you cared deeply approximately. do no longer throw away the main effective portion of your anatomy to 3 fool who won't savor it. carry your head up, woman ; you have a large reason to be PROUD ! while a guy gets married, he would not desire a woman who has been with numerous different adult men. He needs a woman who has adequate self-admire to be selective in her options of slumbering companions. there's a large difference between having intercourse, and making love, and as quickly as you already know that, having intercourse heavily isn't adequate. I wish you plenty success, and that i wish which you will take my suggestion. you're a uncommon jewel !
2016-10-02 01:00:42
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answered by ? 4
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not in a bar or club i am not saying all those guys are bad but most men that go there are just out for fun.i say try going to places like church or a book store you know some place nice.i hope that you find what you are looking for.p.s. if you find him write me back and let me know where i can find a good girl.good luck
2007-03-12 17:49:10
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answered by Craig E 1
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well try going to book clubs or art gallery's . but if you want to try and weed out the losers put an ad in the singles section in the local paper you would get guys that have the same interest that you do i hope this helps you good luck
2007-03-12 17:51:46
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answered by dan m 6
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Look for the one who actually acts like an adult. If he acts like an adult in his everyday life, he will act like that in relationships. If he is childish and immature in everyday interactions, he'll be the same in a relationship.
2007-03-12 17:42:42
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answered by Eastern US Guy 2
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Go to happy hour with your girlfriends and kick it a little, you will find some decent guys somewhere but it is hard, I feel you.
2007-03-12 18:23:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Bookstore, coffee shops, the park or church.
-NmD!
2007-03-12 17:41:34
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answered by NoMaD! 6
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Welcome to the club sister...:) There are mature guys out there but it's just difficult sometimes..don't give up!
2007-03-12 17:41:47
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answered by Anonymous
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