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just feel like im becoming a robot or something, i dont connect well with people,and i dont have much people to tell them my problems, i dont know i dont even feel the urge to eat, or to think about crushes, or to think of my goals in life, im pretty bored and addicted to computer games, im even starting to think of cutting my connection with my textmates cause i no longer want to rely with them about my problems, i just want to feel something sometimes i just even want to have sex if i could , if i would not get pregnant just to feel , or hurt myself by cutting it, what is wrong

2007-03-12 17:34:18 · 12 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Welcome to the virtual world seems like your one of us now.. We've been sucked into our computer they consume a good portion of our life fornately for me I've learned to control my addiction to this darn pc with other hobbies.

Okay before I go to bed please follow my instructions which should help you find "Yourself" or at least I believe this may help.

1) Take out a sheet of paper and write down goals in your life. None? cant think of any? Thats BS Think harder we all have some goals and you know that YOU know them your just not thinking hard enough.

2) Write down reasons as to why these are your goals. Whats the porpose of these goals? WRITE IT DOWN. Now below that write whats preventing you from reaching these goals you would like to achieve.

3) It is financial problems? a lack of motivation? Just no time? WELL MAKE TIME GET A LOAN GET MOTIVATED RIGHT NOW THIS MINUTE BECAUSE YOU WILL ACHIEVE THOSE GOALS IF YOU SET YOUR MIND TO IT.

and old quote..

"you can acomplish anything if you put your mind to it"

DONT DELAY the time is now to achieve your goals these is no tommorow there is only today and you will get to work on those goals. Repeat this to yourself.

4) MAKE A PLAN get ready because your on the verge of taking action. See how to take these written ideas into action and motion!

5) Before you take action sit down When did you start feeling different? Did you do some unsual activity? Make you should break those computer games?

YOU KNOW WHAT. Break those computer games scratch the hell out of the disk give it to someone I dont give a crap but when you become addicted to something I learned personally you have to destroy your addiction litteraly and you need to learn how to have a better self control something im still learning and have yet to master. Look at me Im spending an absurd amount of time on my PC for no apparent reason I need to get up tommorow early whats wrong with me? Consider that same question for you? WHY are you a robot? because your not your lost in your own territory SHAPE UP and find yourself while Im still trying to piece myself together Im doing it in hopes of become a better constructed person Im analizing my weaknesses and strenghts sure my efforts have been lacking to say the least but at least I realize it. You need to as well.

You need to find yourself I cannot help you ONLY you can find and heal yourself. Take a walk tommorow morning reshape what has been lost. Maybe you didnt like your old life. LIFE CAN BE CHANGED FOR THE BETTER DONT BE AFRAID. Make a new page in your life from scratch New job new friends new home make it all new and make NEW goals its hard to get used to at first but it may end up better then before.

2007-03-12 17:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You are in a state of depression. Get some help! you really need to talk with your parents how you feel and if not that someone at your school. Don't feel alone in your feelings 50% people living in the U.S.A. today have some sort of depression. It's not having the depression; it's, what you do about it and how well you handle it. And for everyone who has had it and recovered they will tell you; you can not do it alone. Seek help, the sooner the better. People love you and it would really sadden them if you hurt yourself. Depression not only hurts the individual who has it but all those around them. If not for you than think about them --- Get Help!

2007-03-13 00:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0 0

Been there... sounds like you have nothing to look forward to in your life right now, so your life feels pointless and plain. I think you just need to find something to get excited about.

Try setting a goal for yourself, like to get healthier or to meet three new guys by the end of the month. Once you get active again you will start to connect with people through shared experience and start loving life again. Just get out there

2007-03-13 00:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

from what i know, you're showing symptoms of suicide. you might not realize it but the symptoms include not wanting to socialize, wanting to be left alone, loss of appetite, depression. it may sound scary, but its very serious. everyone has problems but suicide or cutting yourself is never the answer. there is always your friends or family to rely on, or think of anyone who you are close with to tell them about your problems and how you are feeling. dont isolate yourself whatever you do and try to make new friends. if none of this works, you can always see a psychologist and it really helps. if you go to school, there is counselors and professionals to help you. dont be afraid to get help from anyone because no matter how your life is right now, you're worth it. always think about people who have it worse off than you. good luck

2007-03-13 00:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

You're probably Aquarius with Moon in Gemini and Capricorn rising. Life is what we make of it. Why do you think some people are happy and some are sad? Do you choose to be sad? But the ones who are happy chose that. It's up to you. The ball is in your court. Will you play to win at life or lose the game? I hope you chose to win. We all get depressed from time to time, but only YOU know what makes you truly happy. No one else will read your mind and bring you happiness.

2007-03-13 00:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You're depressed.
You need to make some real in-person friends. If you are going out meeting people or even hanging out with people, you won't need to always talk about your problems because you'll likely be happier and your problems wont seem so dramatic.

Try www.meetup.com

2007-03-13 00:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by MissDixie 3 · 0 0

You're going through depression. I know what that feels like. I've struggled with it myself. I would really suggest you see a therapist or psychiatrist to consider going on antidepressants. It's really beneficial to talk to someone about your problems and gain perspective on yourself.

2007-03-13 00:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by vallygval 5 · 0 0

man o man get off that p/c. and get out of the house.i know how you feel. I'm doing the same thing you are.and looking for love.and i can't find it at home alone. just like you .now that its getting worm out i can ride my Harley. how about you . you have to get out. put that p/c on the side for a little bit.live your life

2007-03-13 00:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0 0

I'm not sure how old you are, but if you are still with your parents, please talk to them. Explain to them what you just wrote. I know it could be a little weird to talk to your parents, but it is my hope that you have parents who really do care about you as good parents should. Maybe one thing that you would really feel is a good hug from them. Trust me, no matter how old you get, it's always nice to get a good, warm hug.

2007-03-13 00:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0 0

yor just in a rut,don't dispair you'll find something soon.don't rush things for the mean time.have sex by yourself--if you know what i mean...sit down and ask yourself what is it that i really want.you will answer your own questions.sometimes you just have to analysis yourself. trust me on this one..your friend the lensta....

2007-03-13 00:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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