My boyfriend and I just broke up last week after 4 1/2 years. We are in mutual agreement that our relationship was not working. The only thing is, I would still like to try to work through our problems... and he doesn't. I have made a huge emotional investment in him and I am so heartbroken. I am having such a hard time dealing. To make things even harder.. we live together. It is going to be at least another month before he can move out. During this time, is there any thing I can do to feel better? It is so hard to focus ongetting my life back together when I am still seeing him every day and I know he is just an arms length away. I can't sleep and I don't get hungry, no matter what I do I find myself thinking about him and almost cry. He sees how much I am hurt and he holds me, tells me he is sorry and that I will be OK but this just makes things worse for me. What can I do to feel better?
2007-03-12 17:28:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. I feel your pain. I don't think it's much you can do at this point because you are constantly seeing him. Maybe you should visit some of your girlfriends a few nights a week to kind of take your mind off of him. Who knows he might get jealous and want you back. I don't understand why he doesn't want to work things out but he wants to stay with you.
2007-03-12 17:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with someone until he moves out. Eventually you need to get over it and move on. I know its hard. I just went through it. It took me 9 months to get over it for the most part. Just do things for yourself and try to be around good, positive people, friends and family. Im sorry for how you feel, I know what its like. But time is the only thing that can heal you. And being away from him is the best until you are over it.
2007-03-13 00:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. Can't you go stay with someone else while he leaves. Being there with him makes it even more difficult than when he's actually gone. Try to go out with friends and family. Keep your self occupied with other things. Continue your life, but the sadness will be with you for a while. Just accept it and move on.
2007-03-13 00:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋