i like this girl and she doesent go to my school anymore we are still together but have been on and off now one of my friends told my other friends all my business and now my friends are cracking jokes about me what should i do
2007-03-12 17:23:30 · 20 answers · asked by appleseed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Appleseed, like the other answerers here, ignore them. Anyway, friends are like that, especially immature ones, they chide and make fun with one another (what would friendship be like without these jokes flying around.) They usually don't mean it, so you shouldn't mind too much. And, these kind of jokes usually don't last long. It's how you and your girl feel for one another that's important.
Now, if you feel that your friends have gone overboard, just tell them to stop.
2007-03-12 17:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dowland 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be your friends are concerned that this relationship isn't good for you.. or they're jealous, either that you have a girl, or that you spend time with her instead of them. Or they may be hurt that you kept it a secret from them.
Joking and bugging friends is how people talk when they don't want to make their real feelings obvious. Try to figure out why they're really doing it. If they're just doing it to be mean, get serious and tell them to f* off next time they mention her, and reconsider calling them your "friends".
2007-03-13 00:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by skatc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you ask me, they don't sound like friends...If you like her, be with her. My friend was in a relationship with a girl, but we told him to stop going out with her because she just flirted with guys and got him into major trouble, so she didn't deserve him. If that's the case, maybe she's not for you. Otherwise, forget about your "friends", they're not treating you well.
2007-03-13 00:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Oblivious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously the friend that told your other friends cant be confided in. just ignore their jokes and wise cracks. most likely they are jealous of you and the fact that you have a girlfriend.
2007-03-13 00:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. They're being very immature and are probably jealous they don't have someone they care about. I'd say they each need to get a life and stay out of yours.
2007-03-13 00:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and shake your head at them, or give them a look like "you are so immature", and then walk away.
Sounds like you're already way ahead of them in the maturity area. Soon, they will be begging YOU for advice. Good Luck!
2007-03-13 00:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them
they're idiots
you going out with a girl is nobody's business but your own
2007-03-13 00:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ocean Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they have girlfriends? That could be jealousy on their part...so the jokes on them, LOL! Get some and tell them how great it is.
2007-03-13 00:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them if they dont like a girl they all must be gay. make jokes back about them or ignore it or just admit it. who cares really. they'll get over it
2007-03-13 00:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by jkl; 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them... They are just jealous of you because of many reasons that they are shy to tell others. Be happy for yourself, because you know you have someone to love and be loved. ;-)
2007-03-13 00:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by Shazz Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋