Whenever me and my boyfriend are making out after about 10 minutes he will start pushing his **** against me and he'll eventually manuever himself between my legs and start pushing against me and he starts pushing harder as we kiss.
once we where kissing lying down in the backseat of a car and he starting pushing harder to where i started movin each time he did it and my head was about to get pushed against the door so i had to start curving my back so i wouldnt be bending my neck against the car door!!
so what's he trying to tell me or why does he do this
what do you think??
advice/opinions??
2007-03-12 17:16:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 16 he's 17
2007-03-12 17:16:49 · update #1
& yes fully clothed at all times-
(both of us are virgins as well)
2007-03-12 17:17:16 · update #2
He wants to have sex. Or maybe he's just so wrapped up in the moment he doesn't realizing that he's pushing on you so hard.
Tell him to back off if you don't like it...or kinda push on his chest a little and maybe he'll get the hint.
2007-03-12 17:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Others above me say that he is trying to tell you something. That's crap! He can talk can't he?
Do not do anything you are not comfortable with. You sound like a decent person that isn't a s*ut. Keep it that way !!!!
Don't fall for any of his BS like, " I have needs" and "If you love me you'd do this". If you are not ready for ANY sex act then tell him and see what happens. If he pitches a fit, send him packing. Do not give yourself away.
He's simulating sex in an attempt to get you aroused and hopes that eventually you will actually have sex with him. I suggest you call him on his actions. Start with,"What the F*ck?" Get off of me! Be stern and direct. He's just a step away from rape so be careful.
I suggest you dump him.
2007-03-13 00:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not like the way this sounds; but, he is getting off. It's what they call a dry hump. He is wetting his pants and its not because he pee'd. It's not very respectful to you but he is not worried about you at that point. You should not get yourself in those compromising situations. There has been many times a young girl would end up with a child and wonder way because they never had any penetration, only external simulation with clothing on. Well it only takes a drop, only one little fish, and the your childhood would be over.
2007-03-13 00:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just giving you signs he is ready to go to the next level! But if you by any means feel uncomfortable then you need to tell him and don't let him talk you into something your not ready for, let your first time be special and not in the backseat of a car!
2007-03-13 00:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's horny, Sweetie. He wants sex. Keep making out like that and you'll end up pregnant before you know what hit you.
Neither of you are ready to spend the rest of your lives looking at each other because of an accidental pregnancy.
My advice to you is find other things to do when the two of you are together. You may want to stick to making out when you are seated NEXT to each other. ALWAYS wear pants. LOL. Seriously, it sounds like things are getting too intense way too fast. Learn when to say stop and mean it.
2007-03-13 00:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes 17, doll. One of the major things on his mind right now is sex. If you aren't ready then talk to him about it. If he gets offensive, or if hes a jerk about it then drop him..he just wants you for sex. If you do end up having sex with him, make sure you use protection because you dont want little ones running around..I promise!
2007-03-13 00:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its just a natural response when things get hot and heavy. in short, it means hes revved up and wants to have sex. thats just the way guys are whether they want it to or not. so i suggest that if u both want to remain virgins, dont make out for 10 minutes in the back of a car.
2007-03-13 00:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by the more i see, the less i know 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
even though i have never had this experience..
i would think he is telling you that he wants to do something more than just make out for a long period of time.
i'm not sure. but that's the idea i'm getting.
this is also a sign of being horny for him, so that goes along with him wanting to do more.
i'm not totally sure if i'm right, i'm not very educated in sex. i'm 14. haha.
=)
best of luck!
2007-03-13 00:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by melissa0359 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he wants to have sex! You're probably getting him really excited and he just wants to relieve the pressure by pressing against you. If you're not ready to have sex maybe you can just jerk him off. But you need to talk to him, and if hes making you uncomfortable by grinding on you then you need to tell him. And about the jerking off point, just do what you're ready to do!
2007-03-13 00:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to me it sounds like your having dry sex which is like sex but with clothes on so its just dry humping the answer is he's horny you make him horny lol.... all guys do that if you dont like it tell him but if you do u go on top and and just move up and down on him . it does get annoying but then its funny knowing they really want you .
2007-03-13 00:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋