i shouldnt be even wondering about this dude. he has done me wrong for yrs. and dont even have a second thought about it. so why would i even care about this so called man. how can i get over this. i kind of need some motivating words to feel better about myself after i got dogged out by this thing that scientist are trying to figure out. i guess im mad and still hurt but how can i get over this.
2007-03-12 17:09:23 · 5 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if a man does you wrong, that means he thinks your trash and not worthy of being taken seriously.
When you look in the mirror, do you see trash? Do you see someone who is weak? Do you see someone who is worthless?
I would assume you see nothing like that. But if you continue to think about this guy, the more you answer yes to those questions.
If you know you deserve more, show some dignity by completely shutting this guy out of your life. You have so much more in life to worry about. Since this is nothing more than an avoidable hinderance, have some self-love and move on. Anything thats not healthy for you or your well being only poisons you. Youre worth so much more.
2007-03-12 17:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Quite Frankly with TheFokalist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't no that I can give you but so many encouring words. But I have went though this myself and it isn't easy. You wonder how someone could do you that way. For some unknown reason to me men have a habit of getting what they want out of females and treating you like dirt. But O course I must tell you all men aren't that way. There are still a few left out there. Just do what I have. Look at it as a learning event. Cut your loss and move on to better people. The hurt will always be there and no reason will ever be right for the treatment you have received. Just remember what goes around comes around.
2007-03-12 17:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by LadyBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fel,
Everything is going to be a learning experience for you being young. It is a big blow to the ego and emotions to be "done wrong", and that's our "defense" mechanism we have to dwell on what went wrong in the relationship, etc.
These experiences help you "grow" in lessons and learning in the future, and makes you more aware of who you meet and get to know.!
Ok, your mad and still hurt and these feelings are normal. All you need to do is go out more and join clubs, there are alot of things going in the summertime where you can meet kids your age! Meet some new friends, indulge in a hobby, go to the movies, malls. The point is, to STAY BUSY!
Hurts take time to get over but you can "speed" it up and don't let "negatives' take over!
Do something fun!
2007-03-12 17:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your friends, watch movies, anything that keeps you busy... The reason why you still think of this guy even though he did you wrong, because you liked it... Girl likes bad boys or being mistreated by guys... So just keep yourself busy, you don't need that drama... good luck
2007-03-12 17:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still love him and should give him another chance
2007-03-12 17:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋