Well a very close friend of mine meet this guy on myspcae, and he wants to meet me! She keeps on telling me and trying to convince me to have sex with him! He wants to have sex too, but he is 18 and I am only 14! I am not ready (I am still a virgen), how do I tell him and my friend without ruining our friendship! I don't even know the guy, I meet him 20 minutes ago over a text message, and he is already asking me to sleep with him! I can not ask no one, so I thought asking someone in here will help! Please Help!
2007-03-12 17:05:17 · 12 answers · asked by african-american 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do NOT have sex with him. That's probably all he was looking for to start with. #1 you are to young, and why give that up to a total stranger? If I lost my friends over that then I would say they were not my friends in the first place..#2 its not safe meeting people off line like that. #3 it can be considered as rape....USE your head.
2007-03-12 17:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by txO3blueeyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay i understand you're still young and your friend is a bad friend. You have to get rid of your friend asap because she's being a bad influence on you. You're only 14 and she's tyring to ruin your life already. This guy can do so many bad things to you so never...I repeat NEVER have sex with him or any guys until you're really ready. And tell your friend why dont SHE sleep with the guy. Oh wait maybe she did already. I really dont like your friend at all. She's is hella cold for doing that to you. You deserve a better friend hun. so stay away from her before she keep convicing you to do stuff you're not suppose to do. yet. you're a smart girl and you should stay that way. Keep youself safe. And dont fall for what that guy says because its all a lie. And he's just saying those sweet stuff to get you to have sex with him. Dont worry if you ruin the friendship...I think its meant to be ruin.
good luck. make the right choice.
2007-03-12 17:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents about this immediately. If an 18 year old has sex with a 14 year old, it is statutory RAPE. A 14 year old cannot give legal consent. What is wrong with your so called friend? She is not a friend at all. She is trying to ruin your life. Please listen and tell your parents or an adult you trust. This is just terrible.
2007-03-12 17:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are a vigin and want to ramain that way until marriage, this will discourage him. At 14 you are curious but not stupid. Be cautious, be safe use condumns and if you say no its NO. He is just looking for sex, get rid of him and find someone who will really care about you and your values. Take care Heather
2007-03-12 17:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best ting to do is to explain him that your are looking for a friendship not a relationship.
You are so young to take the risk of sexual disses and not mention responsibilities if you get pregnant.
Try to get help trough a older friend.
The most important is Nobody can force you to do nothing you don't want to do.
2007-03-12 17:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by Slash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be stupid if by any means you get carried away by this guy or any other guy specially for such stupidity, sex is a gift from god the gift to marriage and should only be with the person you love and will be for the rest of your life for you connect your spirit,body,and soul with the person you have sex and always remember that real love can wait and your virginity is priceless
2007-03-12 17:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if he really does have his way with you, he can be charged with statuory rape (sp?). Second, tell your friend that you're not interested in the guy and probably won't be finding a love on the internet.
Hope I helped!
2007-03-12 17:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
1) you just met him...you shouldnt have sex with someone you dont know...its not safe.
2) you are a virgin...make it mean something.
3) you are 14, he is 18...that is statutory rape, even if you consent...he could--and should--go to jail for it.
2007-03-12 17:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I dont think your friend should be telling you to have sex with someone, especially with a person form a myspace.
Thats not cool. Tell them both that you have more class than that.
~Please, dont do it! He only wants sex from you, nothing more. Thats using you, and thats not cool.
2007-03-12 17:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he can sleep in a 6x8 prison cell for coursing a 14 yr. old. that should get his attention to back the **** off
2007-03-12 17:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋