Me and my boyfriend have been together for at least 3 yrs now and I notice now that everytime that I try to show him affection or touch him he always looks at me in disgust and ignores me all together, and when I say something about he claims he is just playing and Im wondering if he may has lost feelings for me or isnt interested anymore if not why cant he just tell me he is not feeling the relationship any longer? tell me what should I do?
2007-03-12 17:04:26 · 7 answers · asked by mscash00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it. Tell him that he's hurting you and ask him how he feels...HONESTLY. If you aren't prepared to hear either good or bad news, I'd suggest waiting until you are because it could go either way.
Another thing could be that you're feeling self conscious about it. That might make you think that he's giving you weird looks when he isn't.
2007-03-20 14:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Drop of Golden Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly I would move on as hard as that might sound. Everyone needs to know that they are loved and cherished. If they do not get that - that is how affairs begin. Especially after you are married (should it get that far). After a day of cleaning toilets, vaccuuming, dusting, cooking, laundry - and probably a full time job, the only thing that makes life great is to be touched, held, and told how wonderful you are or at least show it. If you were to receive the "mental abuse" that you are now getting, there would be no questions asked on my part if you had an affair. So why not nip it in the bud, blow him off, and find someone who truly appreciates you.
2007-03-20 18:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Gigi'sMom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your problem, i had the same one before in a relationship..YOUR TOO CLINGY. he likes you, but he feels overwhelmed by the way you keep trying to hold him and ****..its not really ytour fault u just wnat that affection that he used to give you before right?
well first of all, you have to not be all about him, find other things to do with ur spare time, call a friend instead of him, and do things with your freinds more instead of always him, believe me, hell wonder whats up and want that affection (just like how you want his right now), and hell wonder why ur not all about him, hell make him appreciate you more, and ull feel 100 Xs beter about yourself. and believe me, he WONT brake up with you, three years is a long time, and he wont ruin that, hell try to fix it before he gives up. And you need to take risks. Just try it, youll be happy with the results, i promise. :)
2007-03-20 19:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by xox Rebekah xox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always liked the we need to talk line, it summons a sense of urgency. Then begin evey sentance with I feel, if things get out of hand, your excuse is it was just how you felt.
2007-03-13 00:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hilary P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the person who can answer your question would be your boyfriend himself.
i don't know your boyfriend so i don't have the right to judge him what he is feeling right now.
IT would be unfair if i say he doesn't love you anymore
Try to ask him. Set things straight w/ him and you will know the answer
2007-03-20 22:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by reza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try &ask him whats his problem seriously when he is in a good mood. try 2 b affectionane&see not 2 hurt his feeling .
discuess 2gether &solve this matter. avoid illfeeling&misunderstandings.
2007-03-13 00:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by vijaya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guy does the same thing. someone told me to sit down and talk to him and work things out. I guess it would be a wild shot but try it and see what happens.
2007-03-19 12:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋