My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 6 months after I left for college but have remained friends (he broke up with me b/c he couldn't handle the long distance and I am also seven years younger.) He use to want to get sexual with me when I came to visit but now, after he doesnt...tells me he loves me, misses me, but has to be good. What does this mean? he says doesn't love anyone else and texts me all the time saying he misses me etc. . do you think he wants me for the future and doesnt want
2007-03-12 17:00:10 · 3 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he has matured and loves you for you
2007-03-12 17:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by b3lla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a number of things. Maybe he has become closer to God and see's it as a sin, although highly unlikely, or maybe he is gay and is finally coming out, or maybe his conscious is eating away because he is in another relationship, that's the one I'd bet on. Men usually don't shy away from sex, unless they feel like they are betraying someone and even then they usually still go for it. Or possibly he developed erectile dysfunction and can't perform, whatever it is I would demand to know what has changed for him to withdraw his affections, and then I'd move on and enjoy college life because there are so many men out there who will value all you have to offer if you just give them a chance. Good luck and God bless.
2007-03-13 00:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Shyler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't want it to get serious and if he does something with you, you'll think it means something. Guys don't function the same as woman....he can like you and be attracted and then do something....and it doesn't mean anything, but to you it would, and he doesn't want to go there...
2007-03-13 00:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋