Hi all, this is what happened. serious answers please! My ex bf broke up with me two weeks ago, and his reason? we argue too much (we did every week) but besides that everything was perfect. He told me wants to be alone and not in a relationship. I begged for him for a week and realized it wasnt working, i pushed him further away. For the past few days, ive been his friend trying to spark up old memories and stuff despite ppl telling me to leave him alone, but i KNOW i want him back and things CAN work. He had been giving me the cold shoulder, but hanging out with him today in his room...at one point he said 'dont think anything of this when i do this' and he came over to me and hugged me tight for like 20 seconds. He did this twice today. Usually he'd not pay attn to me, i think he was caught off guard that I WASNT beggin for him back. I stayed really positive. He also said 'Ur making this hard for me' WHAT DOES THIS ALL MEAN? should i keep this up? should i leave him alone?
2007-03-12 16:57:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should back off a little, but not completely. Don't try to get him to get back with you, because the more you bug him, the more he doesn't want to get back with you, if that makes sense.
Try not saying anything about it at all, and act like you're not interested. And that will make him think "oh, why isn't she bugging me anymore..." and it might make him think that you're getting over him.
It's called reverse physiology lol. Just try it out and see what he does.
2007-03-12 17:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might miss you.
He's still dealing with the fact that he broke up with you and he might need his space.
Having you around so much is not making him forget about you and its bringing up memories.
But NEVER beg a guy to come back.
Dont do anything out of the ordinary, just do what you always do and he will make the deicion whether he wants to come back or not
2007-03-13 00:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably misses you.... but for some reason he doesnt think its working out for you guys, it sounds like he doesnt want to be hurt more than what he already is becasue its hard for him to see you.... put yourself in his shoes.... what would you do if it was the other way around??? how would you feel???
2007-03-13 00:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you back. Keep it up.
2007-03-13 00:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋