I'am only 18 and i have a 9month son and it's really hard to find a date just because i have a son. I'am not ugly either so what is the promble?
My baby daddy left me for a nother girl so sad, so iam just trying to find somebody to take my mind of him and just to love.
2007-03-12 16:56:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's true that many guys aren't ready for that type of responsibility. You may spend some years here really roughing it to make it work. Let me give you an extremely important piece of advice.
DO NOT let the fact that your baby might turn some guys off cause you to resent your child. If it's starting to make you resent your child, go seek therapy. I'm serious. The worst thing that kids ever have to go through is being raised by a single parent that they can just tell doesn't like them very much.
Your baby needs a secure attachment to you and if you can be a real grown-up here and be there for him, he'll grow up to be a healthy kid... and THEN it'll be more attractive to see a beautiful, mature single mother who is doing a great job raising a happy child and making it work for herself and her son.
2007-03-12 17:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people can be put off if their date has a child. It's just a matter of time before you find someone.
2007-03-12 17:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by jc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the majority of guys that age dont want the responsibilty of a kid.
2007-03-12 16:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by Steveo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid that I have to agree with Joecool. We only wan't the one thing!!! Keep ur head up kid:) you will find the one!!
2007-03-12 17:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by BRANDON R 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys who date dont like kids. They only want one thing unfourtunatley.....
2007-03-12 17:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋