you c, parents today mostly are working parents..
they don hav time 4 dat..
okay since a baby reach 3 years old, parents send them 2 d nursery..do we take that as the parents pass the responsiblity onto the nursery?..
anyone plss help.. ill debate...
voice out ur opinions....
positively and negatively are welcomed..
2007-03-12 16:22:46 · 11 answers · asked by evax_ian626 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
hey2..
jus dont get misunderstood..
im still a student.. i mean this is not a problem of mine..i'll debate about this..
help me plss..
2007-03-12 16:31:22 · update #1
It is the parents responsibility to instill those things in children. THat is what's wrong with the educational system today. Too many parents want the teacher to not only educate their child but raise them also. Take the time. You parented this child. Now raise the child.
2007-03-13 04:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are busy and working and having someone else look after your children for several hours a day is not an excuse to stop being a parent. Most parents I know, myself included, do not look on day care providers, teachers, babysitters, etc. as substitute parents. They are just what the name implies...day care providers, teachers, babysitters....Having raised 4 of my own children, 4 that belonged to other people and now my grandson through all of which I was a single working parent I can assure you that no matter how busy you are there is always time to instill values and principles and morals in your children...even if it is in the car driving to the basketball game! The day care providers, teachers, etc. are helpers....and if the parent is careful enough they should be people who share the same ideals and ideas about child rearing as the parents themselves.
2007-03-12 16:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by mental 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you are right many kids go to day care centers at a very young age because both parents have to work. And fortunately there are many day care provider that teach children moral values. If the parents do not have time and most of the children's time are at daycare it is up to the day care provider to teach the children moral values. But it is also the parents upbringing and what they believe in that affects the child the most even if they do not see the child as much as a day care provider does.
2007-03-12 16:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a parent's responsibilty to find time for their children. Working or not, that child is going to remember the time you spent solely on them. But they'll remember the times you didn't spend with them more. By no means should a parent pass on the responsibilty to another caregiver. If a parent expects or lets an outside authority do the parenting for them, then yes, the parent is responsible. It was the parent who decided to let the upbringing of their child take the backseat.
2007-03-12 16:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by starlight_940 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are working doesnt mean you dont have time for your kids. You cant work 24/7 so there has to be some time there... It is definately the parents responsibility to install moral and ethical values in their children. No-one else is going to care for them more than the parents.
2007-03-12 16:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 06:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the world was better when women were stay at home moms. and I AM A WOMAN just so you know. but think about it the children got so much more attention and better care than being thrown in a day care all day and women too they werent as stressed because they only had one job (to take care of the house) as opposed to the usual two (house and workplace) the men were happier too because they got taken care of. but really its the attention and ccare the kids got that makes it so much better
2007-03-12 16:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the job of parents to shape and model their kids into healthy, moral human beings. Its not the daycares job, they did not have the child the parents did.
2007-03-12 16:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by tammer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a working parent and I still have time for dat!
It all depends on your priorities.
2007-03-12 16:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
parents job for sure how do you know the daycares teachings will work with yours you need to teach your kid to go by your rules
2007-03-12 16:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋