Three's Company Modern Day?

Question

Okay, so me and my boyfriend of 6 months, Martin had the most wonderful day today. He sent me a text message at lunch saying "Meet me at my house at 5." When I got to his house He blindfolded me and led me down to the creek. He had set up two champagne glasses with sparkling water and a blanket. We watched the sunset and he had brought his iPod with a deck and played our favorite song, "Poetically Pathetic" by Amber Pacific. We kissed to it and it was like a fairy tale. It couldn't have been more romantic. But the whole time I had this hurting feeling deep down in me because a few months ago I had just ended a 14 month relationship with my ex, Taylor. I can't accurately describe the feeling but it was like I'm doing something wrong like cheating on someone. After the breakup he called me everyday still & I never answered and he would tell me on my voicemail he loved me. I know I loved him. But I know Martin loves me too, and I share the feeling with him. But does this mean I'm still in love with Taylor?

Answer 1

Muahahah sry, its not funny. Thats just the way of the heart. Anything strong enough to touch it, scars it. And scars don't go away. You can hope to forgive a person but you'll never forget them. Not a good idea to split your heart up like that if your still having powerful feelings for the other guy. But no worries been there you get over it over time. You'll never forget the ex and your relationship with him we'll paint everyone after it. The same can be said about your new boyfriend. Another important thing to any relationship is history. And lets face it you have alot of history with Taylor but your just getting started with the new guy, so expect some false starts and strange feelings. The heart never lets go, it just lightens its grip. But as time goes by and the history with the new guy piles up it well eventually fade away in intensity. Just make sure he isn't failing short of the last or else your going to find it harder and harder to forget Taylor. O and be careful who you love, be darn careful. It takes a part of you everytime, make sure there welling to give back, he sounds like a good guy for it thou. I call it growing pains personally and its all part of the great game of love.