My ex-boyfriend has recently asked out one of my friends. we're great friends, we talk to each other constantly. It bothers me that he asked her out because I still have feelings for him. she rejected him becuase other people were telling him what he had done during our relationship.So now he wants me to talk to her to not listen to what they're saying. I agreed to talk to her becuase I felt sorry for him.How can I go about and tell her to go out with him if i can't get over him.
2007-03-12 16:01:45 · 9 answers · asked by Bernie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its in the girls rule: She can not date him and especially if you still have feelings for him . And he obviously he wasn't that good to you so you don't owe him anything and you wouldn't want your friend to be subject to that.
2007-03-12 16:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that you and the guy didn't have the chemistry. Just because we like someone doesn't mean that they will feel the same way about us. It happens, just be glad that you weren't married with kids and stuff. You're young and will have many other meaningful relationships in the course of your life. Woman up and get on with your life. Good luck.
2007-03-12 16:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. your friend should not even be thinking about any man that you have already dated.
2. your boyfriend should not even be thinking about any woman your great friends with.
3. hes wrong for involving you.
4. your crazy for feeling sorry for him.
5. your friend shouldnt be taking action from hearsay.
6. i would be done with the both of them for breaking the rules of relation/ friendship.
2007-03-12 16:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just tell him that you are not comfortable doing that, be true to yourself. I think you should also tell your friend how you felt about all of this. You need to do what will make you happy, not your ex.
2007-03-12 16:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Your personal feeling could get in the way and ruin you friendship with the girl.
2007-03-12 16:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. If you're friends with your ex, he should have asked you before asking her out. It is not your responsibility to convince her, and tell him that.
2007-03-12 16:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont help him out!! u dont have to make ur friend like him if he really likes her then he needs to talk to her and u need to tell ur friend u still got feelings for ur x if shes ur true friend she will understand
2007-03-12 16:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by rayada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't. If she is really your friend, you should be honest with her. tell her how you feel.
2007-03-12 16:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you think he is right for her, and if he's really right for you to still be thinking about him...
2007-03-12 16:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by thegalfromtrinidad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋